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Lauren brooks
Lauren brooks
Мама четверых детей, беременна

Anyone else fed up with their midwife. I'm due this Friday with my 5th baby and suffering with SPD so bad I can no…

Anyone else fed up with their midwife. I'm due this Friday with my 5th baby and suffering with SPD so bad I can no longer pick my 12 month old up... babys movements have been less then what they use to be my pelvis is not coping so well. I've told my midwife this and I just keep getting passed of. I'm fighting with her just for a sweep which I've never had a problem on getting on with any of my baby's on due dates but she's so demanding I gotta wait till 41 weeks oh and I'm measuring 3 weeks ahead and already had 3 big babys. Baring in mind this midwife has never had kids herself so doesn't understand what it's like and she's going by the books. I'm so fed up and upset in pain every single day. Have any of u lady's seen a different midwife at last min and they did what you wanted? PFA

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muksu

muksuМногодетная мама (5 детей)

congratulations ♡♡♡♡♡

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k720

Kay24

@lauren1519 asda, 1 hour and 52 minutes because it thins and dialated the cervix xx

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lauren1519

Lauren brooksМама четверых детей, беременна

@k720 how long was u in labour after taking it. Where did u buy it from xx

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k720

Kay24

Try taking a evening primrose oil tablet vaginally, I done this my waters broke later that night, I was advised to do it by my midwife as my waters have never gone naturally before I put it down to the evening primrose oil she said it could save me needing a sweep and she was right! Just amazing there's no harm in trying it the midwifes at the hospital also told me they think it's amazing and alot of mum's swear by it xx

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crazygirl16062006

💕Aisha 💕Мама сына (12 лет), беременна (33 нед.)

Hope they sort you out babe your bump is amazing best of luck xx 😘

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lauren1519

Lauren brooksМама четверых детей, беременна

Thanks lady's. I'l be ringing up my local hospital today to try see a new midwife. Fingers crossed I get somewhere. Tbh never had this from any midwifes. So annoying. I know a sweep helps put me in labour as it has done with my last 2 baby's but just don't get why she's bein such a bitch and trying to make me wait 😪. So glad this is my last pregnancy it's not been an easy one xx

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crazygirl16062006

💕Aisha 💕Мама сына (12 лет), беременна (33 нед.)

I’m 31 weeks Friday my midwife not measured me or done baby heart beat I change her now. So hoping my new one nice lol

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xtx

T Мама сына (1 год)

Ive never had what you had but my midwife was crap! Most the time she weren’t there so I saw different ones some were great and some just were doin their job 😑

If I was you I’d go just go around her and phone up the hospital, I did when I was told I needed an emergency scan due to no growth in 2 weeks my midwife was waiting till the following week to book 🤦🏻‍♀️ pfft I weren’t waiting I just phoned the hospital myself when I got home and got booked in for the following day, they had no issue with it.

Phone them up especially if your baby ain’t moving like they usually do, just totally by pass ya midwife hun xx

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linkofhyrule

Courtney SuttonМама дочки-младенца

I'd ask for a change of midwives she does not sound very good

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chesscal

K

Go to your maternity hospital xx @lauren1519

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muksu

muksuМногодетная мама (5 детей)

we dont have midwifes here so i cant help you with that... but my last baby was supposed to be really huge and they talked already about starting birth at 38 weeks and what not... never happened cause she didn't get as big as expected, like she was supposed to be over 4,5kg, but at birth she she was 3,5kg and all was fine and normal birth... but point is, they would have started it as early as 38 weeks already because of size... here they are very worried about size here... I don't know if you maybe can go to the hospital or a doc and ask them??? but deffinetly change her... she needs feedback and all... and you have had big babies, so they should take you serious about it and take care of your wishes and feelings on the matter... good luck :)

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willow.gray

Willow GrayМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I've always had provlems with stubborn community midwives. Get yourself a new midwife or ask to see a consultant. X

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?