So I seen some text messages in my Fiance phone that bothered me but he just said he was joking about it.
So I seen some text messages in my Fiance phone that bothered me but he just said he was joking about it.
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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Ever have a bad gut feeling about your husband ? Like he doing something he shouldn’t or whatever ?
Ever have a bad gut feeling about your husband ? Like he doing something he shouldn’t or whatever ?
He liked his pumpkin bread today 🙃🧐 he is such a weird picky eater. One day he likes something the next he doesn’t 🤷🏻 ♀
He liked his pumpkin bread today 🙃🧐 he is such a weird picky eater. One day he likes something the next he doesn’t 🤷🏻 ♀
Mr.Loyal 20 minutes of labor he was here
Mr.Loyal 20 minutes of labor he was here
Yesterday my boyfriend said he vomited 3 times yesterday and he been having cravings and sleeping more than usual and…
Yesterday my boyfriend said he vomited 3 times yesterday and he been having cravings and sleeping more than usual and today he said he is having back pain is that a sign of me being pregnant?
Sasha Rivera·
Men don’t see it as we do if it was us doing what they supposedly were joking about
Markila·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
So I'm in a interracial relationship. So the messages were between him and his friend they were calling each other Nigger and I was really bothered but he just laughed it off
Rachel Mitchell·
Nahhh I'd be bothered too. I'm also in an interracial relationship too. I'd put my foot so far up his butt lol.
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
That's wild. He needs to realize that just because it's his friend it's not a funny word. And that's disrespectful to you.
Markila·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
He's like he called me one first. I'm like how do you even feel comfortable saying it knowing you have kids that are half black.
Markila·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
Oh and there was the whole "why you going through my phone crap"
Rachel Mitchell·
Yea no not okay would he be okay with his friend calling his kids nigger??!
Markila·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@ljsmommy22 that's what I said he's like your wrong i shouldn't have said it. I probably was high anyways. Still kinda brushing it off so I just walked away.
Markila·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@fakoffyeh i know i tried to explain how that word was offensive to me and he kept brushing it off saying he didn't mean it we always joke like that.
Markila·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@fakoffyeh oh for sure.I'm looking at things differently now Because if I hadn't seen the messages he would have kept saying it.
Rachel Mitchell·
I would try to tell him that we need to have a serious talk and discuss what is not okay in the relationship. I'd say if you can't figure that out I don't know if I should stay I wouldn't want my kids to be around that
Markila·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@ljsmommy22 yes we're definitely gonna have a talk tonight. I calmed down a little I'm not gonna yell or anything.
Markila·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
Cause girl when he started laughing I saw myself punching him dead in his jaw but I didn't want our kids to see it
👻·
Out of curiosity, what race is his friend that called him that first?
Teresha Hollis ·
🤔🤔
Markila·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@mojobebe He's white too
👻·
@mother_of_girls, SMH. Today it’s hahaha I was joking and tomorrow it might be him calling you or another black person that out of anger. Nip that shit now. If he can’t understand why you are so upset then he doesn’t need to be a fiancée.
Markila·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@mojobebe Yeah were definitely gonna finish our conversation
Markila·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@teresha_h Crazy right?
L·
Мама двоих (младенец)
🤦 not okay, ever... Hopefully now that he understands how deeply offensive that language is to you, he won't speak like that again. Hopefully him "brushing it off" was out of embarrassment for having to be told something that everyone should know by this point. Regardless, hope your talk went well and that he "gets it" now.