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Martha Mendoza
Martha Mendoza
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So today I told my son's dad to send me the money for my son's needs. He did, $500. I said thank you. Then he sends me a…

So today I told my son's dad to send me the money for my son's needs. He did, $500. I said thank you. Then he sends me a message saying its for solely for our son. Don't spend it on stuff I don't need. And that he'll send me $500 a month. Okay, I got pissed because first of all, of course I'm gonna use the money on my son's needs. I'm not the type to use it for selfish reasons. Secondly, the first time he sent me money, he asked how much did he send and I answered $500. He then said, "Oh. I meant to send $1000." With that, I understood that he'll send me $1000 a month. Now this is the second time he sends after the 3 weeks he sent the first one. He changes it and is upset because I didn't agree. I'm like why change it all of a sudden? And he starts the whole things that he used to spent this much when we were together and that $1000 wasn't spent. I'm like I'm just repeating on what you said first. I didn't say give me the amount now. I'm just saying what you said at first and that at least send $500 every two weeks not every week

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penelope127

Penelope

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@marita97, then you know the exact amount, and he will be forced to pay you with no excuses unless he stops working.

marita97

Martha Mendoza

Мама сына (2 года)

@penelope127 That's what I'm most likely gonna do

penelope127

Penelope

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Did you ever consider just doing a court order for child support?

marita97

Martha Mendoza

Мама сына (2 года)

@mommy.to.sterling I wish I had proof of it. I'm not asking to send that amount now or anything. I just want to know why he said that in the first place if he was planning to send only $500 a month. I'm just afraid he'll keep changing it for the worse

marita97

Martha Mendoza

Мама сына (2 года)

@mommy.to.sterling No, we were at his mom's when I brought my son to see them. We were talking in what days he could see his son. And thats when he asked

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