My husband recently cheated on me and has taken the decision to leave me to be with her and it hurts so bad. My world right now doesn’t make sense and I’m always crying and trying to be strong for my three kids I had with him like how do I cope how do I go from being a house wife to a single parent?? My life right now doesn’t make sense. It’s just me and my 3 kids in that empty apartment and I feel so alone and depressed and I just want to know if any mom on here went through this like how do I begin and how do tell my kids?? They’re so little my son is only 5 and my twins are 2 and I’m just here trying to assimilate everything I’m just so numb right now my life doesn’t make sense right now. I don’t know what to do it hurts so much!!
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Sorry you have to go through this right now. 🙏🙏🙏 For you and your kids. What breaks you will only make you stronger. Try to keep busy keep your mind off of what was. Go places with your kids and stay busy. You can't change what's been done you can only be there for your children as they need you more then you know. No one's perfect you can do it single parenting maybe a bit tough at first but, I'm sure you'll adjust. Stop crying and start working on you and your kids. In time things will have gotten easier to come by for you. Take care and be the best you can be.
I’m sorry his happened to you. I wouldn’t even know what to do if I was in your shoes. Try to move back in with your parents so they can help you with the kids while you find out what’s your next move
I'm truly sorry you are going through this. I wish there was something I could do to help.
I'm so sorry... What a complete jerk to just up and leave you and your children...
Right now, I'm sure your emotions are all over the place, but you need to think logistically. Try to get a plan together of what to do from here. It may be necessary to move in with family or a friend until you get on your own two feet. Going from a sahm to sole provider is a big jump, but I'm sure you can do it! It will take an adjustment on your part as well as the kids, but they are young and can adapt as you do. As for what to tell them... They won't really understand much. Simply telling them that Daddy moved out might be sufficient for now. They don't need to be dragged into his infidelity and bad choices, and they wouldn't get it anyways.
Oh no. I'm so sorry mama. What a piece of trash. It's going to hurt for a long time and it's going to feel wrong for a long time...
You need to put him on child support asap so you can manage the kids . I highly suggest meeting with a family therapist for yourself. Not only can they help you with coping strategies but they are good resources for families. The therapist might be able to recommend you to more help and support for single mother families. You can't do this alone at first. Lean on family and friends.
So sorry you're going through this.
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Yea I would definitely tell your family cuz your going to need help while u get on your feet and be the best mom to your wonderful children. It hurts yes and u might not see it now but IT WILL GET EASIER. With time. Keep pushing to get out of this... and you’ll succeed mama!