Was nervous my first time and second time.

You’ve heard women tearing down to their ass. Well you can tear in the other direction...the clit. (And sides) Something I never even thought could happen and no one mentions but it’s possible. And why I’m scared to do it again. 😂😂😂 Happy to report the lady bits work just fine! But think of it this way....would ladies go on to have multiple kids if it were THAT bad? It is in fact worth it!

I’m trying not to think about it lol

Yeah I’m definitely gonna end up using epidural i believe. I love carrying him but i can’t wait to meet him i just forget the painfully process i go through to meet him. But they say it’s all worth it 😂

@yeadatstoya, and you cant really request a c section tho so just anticipate doing it vaginally

I’m having my 4th baby an I’m not scared or nervous for delivery I’m having another boy && my boys are 9 pounds babies 😏 I think you should try vaginal it doesn’t mes up ur vaginal just try to relax

@yeadatstoya, giving birth vaginally didn't hurt for me because I had an epidural but afterwards when I got home from the hospital Is when my vagina felt like it was freaking slaughtered lol but it heals and goes back to "normal" but I rather do vaginally than c section any day

I'm so nervous and this isn't even my first! Everyday I remember "yep I still have to get you out eventually" .. both my previous birthing experiences were very different so I have no idea what to expect 😣

@yeadatstoya that doesn't make much of a difference, dear. The vagina is a muscle. It bounces back. If you're that worried, start doing kegels.

@yeadatstoya, exactly. I had a 3rd degree tear and multiple other tears.. 😭 wasn’t fun, it freaked me out more then really hurt..

I’ve heard fast labor which mine was and or being tiny down there can cause it.

They say if u massage ur perineal it can help to not tear, might wanna give it a try.

C section is gonna hurt and put u out for longer time

@deborahjq, i was a virgin before i got pregnant which i found out not even a month after i lost my virginity lol

@yeadatstoya when you give birth vaginally, it doesn't necessarily mean permanent damage lol. It's sore and may need stitches, so it won't be a pretty sight, but it heals. After both of my births, my vagina was actually tighter than before 🤷🏻‍♀️

I just want things to go peacefully and my baby to come out nice and healthy with my vagina still intact if that’s not too much to ask for 😂

Ohh ur definitely not, I was super nervous abt it, it all ended up happening really quick so at the time my nerves went away thankfully

I'm going to have my 3rd in November and Im definitely nervous. My doctor said this baby will probably be about the same weight as my last baby -- she was nearly 9 POUNDS.

@itslinny, I’m just unsure of which way to do it c section or vaginal, people tell me vaginal can mess up my vagina after 😭 but then again i don’t feel like i wanna be cut open

😂 nope .. girl I'm terrified

Nope. I've been through it once before and I'm still nervous to do it again!