Last night was our first night home with carter, it was a little rough. I’m breast feeding so it’s harder on me than dad. Which is totally fine I get it, he on the other hand doesn’t. He snapped at me an said I’m not letting him help 🙃🙃🙃 but didn’t complain about me letting him sleep almost the whole night 😒 an I’m the bad guy
@tatianaaav, we’ll see how that works tonight. He’s even sleeping right now 😒 but I don’t wanna lay down cause I know as soon as I do he’s gonna wake up an want fed 😭
Haha, my husband never got up in the night with either of my girls. Oh he doesn't help during the day either. 🙄 Lazy assssss.
I agree with pp, let him change the diapers and when baby wakes up have him grab him. I know he’s going to want to eat but hey he wants to help. I have my baby’s father pick her up and soothe her until she starts crying again. Then I get her.
@yvelid, right I’m just waiting for it 🙄 then he got frustrated when he couldn’t calm the baby an he handed him to me an he stopped crying🙃
Tonight I’m gonna wake him up for every diaper like hey you said I wasn’t letting you help lol
It's such a tough transition. It's a lot of trial and error and finding balance. Our marriage was definitely tested with a newborn but we came out stronger than ever. One day at a time! Just keep doing your best and focus on communication.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
My boyfriend hasn’t changed ONE diaper ever and my son is 9 months old. He hasn’t fed him in about 5 months, he doesn’t bath him and hes never been left alone with him and he doesn’t even wake up during the night to help with him. He MAYBE washes the bottles at night if it’s a good day and I’m confused as to how bc I’m a woman IM supposed to do all that by myself?? lmfao ya no.
Hey ladies question so I’m messing with this guy and me and him been talking for a minute and we have been having sex and like some stuff is off like he don’t want me at his house and he’s 30 and like he comes round only at night time and like after we done having sex he hurry up and wash his self off like his face and mouth and penis with soap and when we kiss he want me to wipe my lipgloss off first
Does these sound like signs of him cheating and him having someone back at home ??????
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
My husband never woke up with our first. Literally never. Every diaper, every bottle, every cry was all me. Now with our second his ass is up too. I was WAY too easy on him lol