Last night was our first night home with carter, it was a little rough. I’m breast feeding so it’s harder on me than dad. Which is totally fine I get it, he on the other hand doesn’t. He snapped at me an said I’m not letting him help 🙃🙃🙃 but didn’t complain about me letting him sleep almost the whole night 😒 an I’m the bad guy
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@tatianaaav, we’ll see how that works tonight. He’s even sleeping right now 😒 but I don’t wanna lay down cause I know as soon as I do he’s gonna wake up an want fed 😭
Haha, my husband never got up in the night with either of my girls. Oh he doesn't help during the day either. 🙄 Lazy assssss.
I agree with pp, let him change the diapers and when baby wakes up have him grab him. I know he’s going to want to eat but hey he wants to help. I have my baby’s father pick her up and soothe her until she starts crying again. Then I get her.
@yvelid, right I’m just waiting for it 🙄 then he got frustrated when he couldn’t calm the baby an he handed him to me an he stopped crying🙃
Tonight I’m gonna wake him up for every diaper like hey you said I wasn’t letting you help lol
It's such a tough transition. It's a lot of trial and error and finding balance. Our marriage was definitely tested with a newborn but we came out stronger than ever. One day at a time! Just keep doing your best and focus on communication.
My husband never woke up with our first. Literally never. Every diaper, every bottle, every cry was all me. Now with our second his ass is up too. I was WAY too easy on him lol