Not one to share family stuff but my mom has some medical issues going on that I don’t want to get into but they are stressing me out a little bit at the moment. She cannot drive over for my baby shower this weekend. She isn’t going to die and it’s nothing extremely serious, I just want to spend time with my mom. So I was going to go to her. She is 5 hours away though. I was going to have my husband drive me but we have company coming next week when I want to go. The company is not staying with us and we just saw them a month ago. I would like for him to take my side and take me but he is very family oriented as well and wants to be here to see his cousin. And the following weekend we won’t be able to go because he has to work. Ugh! Seriously I want to cry this has been a terrible time to be pregnant. I don’t want to drive myself over cause I don’t trust myself to drive that far at this point. Plus if he drives I can relax and stretch and move around a little bit.
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@hollya1221, I am in the Salem area.
@gypsymomma oh okay..I personally wouldn't go 5 hrs away at that point in my pregnancy.. I believe it should be what u want and your husband should go pick her up and bring her back and maybe you can pick if u want to go as well for the ride there or ride back depends how u feel.. 💓
@hollya1221, thank you that’s very sweet of you. I’m just at a loss. She wasn’t able to make it to the baby shower I had last weekend either. I know she’s heart broken over it, I know I am that’s for sure. Maybe I’ll switch doctors really quick and go have the baby at the hospital where she lives so she can see him and spend some time with him. 😢
@sorcha, I could but I’m not sure anyone would be able to go this short notice. I will ask around though. Thank you for the idea.
@sherrynygirl, she can’t travel right now. I do have the okay to drive still even though I’m this far in my pregnancy.
Maybe see if a friend could drive you. If you plan it out and take some breaks along the way you should be ok. But you know your body best.
Honestly, if he can't, I'd find a friend who could take you.
Can't anyone other than your husband get her... Your too long in your pregnancy to drive 5hrs away 1 way ..I wouldn't feel comfortable going that far even I was driven.Can she fly or take a greyhound maybe the day before
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀️
Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was fine 🙄
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
@hollya1221, thanks though for the offer. I really appreciate it.