My daughter’s dad cheated on me twice. I thought he’s going to change but I guess he couldn’t resist having other women. Sometimes I think maybe it’s me. Maybe I’m the problem but I’ve telling him that if he doesn’t love me anymore then he can just tell me straight up. But yet again, he cheated on me again. And he’s saying that he doesn’t want to split up. Half of me thinks that I want to let it go because it’s for the sake of my daughter. But half of me thinks that if I let him do this to me my daughter will be hurt too one day. I’m so depressed I just gave birth to my daughter 4 months ago. I don’t know what to do anymore. If any of y’all are single moms, how can you do it? I don’t think I can handle this. I wanna explode. But I know I need to be strong for my baby girl.
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Girl i know how hard it is believe me I've been in your shoes but whats best for you and your daughter is to get out of that relationship cycle. I didnt want my daughter to think my relationship was normal when it was horrible and I only stayed so we could raise her together but then I thought that I'd rather raise her to be strong and independent with me alone then me sad and unhappy in a unfair relationship. Its still hard till this day but I'm in a much better place
Oh hun, that sucks so bad. I'm sorry that he can't keep his word and is such a scumbag. It's nothing you did wrong, so please don't feel like you are the problem. He is entirely to blame for his actions. I'm usually in favor of working things out, but the three I will not tolerate is a significant other who beats, cheats or lies. I think it's best to get away from him while you can.
I had this happen to me when my daughter was small as well and honestly they never changed my x kept saying he will stop for our kid but never did so I finally let him go and I am doing so much better just me and my daughter and I feel like such a relief I am no longer upset or anything cause of him I’m happy and my child is happy it’s honestly the best decision I made. 3 years later I found a man that loves and respects me and my daughter and now we have our own baby on the way with our own house and everything.
Yes you guys are right. Thankful I have this app to vent my emotions thru the phone. Thank you guys. Every comment means a lot to me.
I was so confused hahaha @jesuslover82 that sucks mama. I can't imagine what you've been thru but you rock.
It’s just hard for now but I will take it one step at a time.
@kambam, yeah the way she worded it , even I was like 😬😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
That makes no sense. Sorry WHAT? you guys are 15yrs apart which would make him 1yr old at alleged cheating scandal? But even if you meant 31 he would Have been 10... lol help @jesuslover82
You shouldn't have to put up with that. Life is way too short to be unhappy, unloved, abused. When you're ready, it's best to just cut it off and never look back. Stay with family until it all gets handled and work on yourself again.
@laniejay, that’s true I appreciate you telling me that.
The second you let it go the first time, you gave him permission to do it again. Let it go again and he will do the same. It’s not you, it’s him. If he can’t keep his dick in his pants, it’s his problem. Would you want your daughter to do the same? Because you’re teaching her this is acceptable.
Thank you mamas! I appreciate y’all. I’m letting him go for good.