Jody M
jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

Update: so went to hospital on sunday due to bleeding slightly,they sent me to epu yesterday amd they did a scan,to my dates I should be 9+6 today,anyway did a abdominal scan couldn't see anything so did a internal scan,few minutes later she said there was a gestational sac there only measuring 6 weeks and couldn't see a baby,then then midwife told me to prepare to go home and miscarry,o have another scan in 2 weeks which I think is going to be the worst two weeks of life,o dernt go to toilet incase anything happens,I can't stop crying,has anyone else had this and gone on to have a baby?I have read it online that sometimes they can't see anything at 6 weeks then they can a few weeks later,I can't sleep,eat,concentrate on anything at min but my poor baby,iam absolutely devastated,please someone tell me a successful story xx

10.07.2018

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steph2104
Steph Brooks·Мама четверых детей

@delhunni197jojodan, yes most recent one and the same thing happened with my now 7 year old as well. You must be so worried I totally understand. Are they doing your bloods to make sure the pregnancy hormone is rising? Xx

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@lozjessop_ awww that's real nice,simular to my situation actually aswel lol,I met my partner when I was 17,had a bit of thing then it ended,11 years later I got a msg on fb off him hahaha,been together ever since,came off fb tho as he's ex dint approve coz she knew we had a thing years ago so she used to send us snotty msgs n that,pathetic Init,but I just thort yano what I don't need fb anyway if anyone is my true friend they wpuld have my number and contact me that way,never looked back lol,this is my fb on here now lol,that's real sweet you got back together it must be love lol,good luck with everything hun xxx il send u my number soon just bit busy at min then have to go get little one from nursery so will do it later when I'm free of children lol xxxx

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@steph2104 really?I hope that's the case for me,it's the way they say to ya I'm so sorry but there's no baby,its like it's set in stone once they say it,i have read loads of success story's about people around this time and no baby,went back few weeks later and there was baby,this is going to be the longest 2 weeks of my life,was that with your most recent one hun?xxx

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steph2104
Steph Brooks·Мама четверых детей

@delhunni197jojodan, it’s probably just off a bit. My pregnancy test said 2-3 weeks and that was wrong. I had 3 internal scans before they even saw a sac and I was around 8 weeks when they finally saw it xxx

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lozjessop_
L❤️·Мама сына (6 лет)

@delhunni197jojodan, it is awful what some men put us through😥 I’ve been with my current partner for a year next month, but we were together as child hood sweethearts for 3 years then had a 3 year break and now are happy and expecting our baby boy Xxxx

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@lozjessop_ awww bless ya,it's awful them situations,I was the same with my second,I found out I was pregnant and he's response ws to sleep with everyone amd anyone and tell.me I'm fat,ugly,no one would touch me,il be a lonely single mother,well 5 years now iv been with my current partner and he's amazing,does.my head in at times but he's great amd a brilliant dad and stepdad,my ex used to threaten to come burn my house down,said if my little one ever seen hom he would spit in her face and alsorts,so.needless to say she don't see him,i always watch jeremy kyle and it annoys me when he says all father's should see there kids,I do agree mostly but then there's dick eds like my ex who shouldn't be allowed anywhere near kids xxxx

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lozjessop_
L❤️·Мама сына (6 лет)

@delhunni197jojodan, I would have been a single mum as the person who baby was to wanted me to have an abortion, he was horrible! Never wanted our child. But now I’m with the man of my dreams and he’s amazing Xxx

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@lozjessop_ yeah I suppose that is a good way to look at it,yano I'm gonna look at it like that from now on and if all goes well in two weeks God nos what il be like,il be hysterical either way lol one in a good way and another in a bad way xxxx

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lozjessop_
L❤️·Мама сына (6 лет)

@delhunni197jojodan, don’t be sorry, I always see it as him upstairs thought I weren’t ready to be a mum at that stage Xx

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@lozjessop_ it is hun I agree,just sorry to friend you in a bad situation,but thank you it is really nice of you 😆xxx

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@zee3009 I did a test at a&e amd it still said positive,but then the midwife said to me if I was having a miscarriage it would still show up pregnant anyway due to all my hormones still xx

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lozjessop_
L❤️·Мама сына (6 лет)

@delhunni197jojodan, send your number across😊 no problem. It’s nice to have people around you who’ve been through the same situation Xx

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@lozjessop_ Iv got whatsapp drl don't do fb to much hassle for me lol,il send u my number shortly if you like 😊xxx thanks for everything xxx

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@steph2104 thanks hun I hope iv just got my dates wrong,I did the test on the 7th June and it said I was 1-2 weeks,so that's around 6 weeks,so fingers crossed,it's just they add on more weeks don't they amd stuff so in that case I'm 9+5 today technically,im just so confused,worried and everything in between, I don't know how to feel coz if I feel it will be ok then it's not then il be disappointed yet again,then if I'm thinking the worst I'm constantly crying amd worrying,I'm just stuck at min xxx

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steph2104
Steph Brooks·Мама четверых детей

Most women don’t see anything at 6 weeks! I know I didn’t until I was about 7-8 and my baby is now 4 weeks old! I know it’s easier said than done but try not to worry and I hope everything’s ok but I’m sure it will be xx

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zee3009
Mommy309·Мама дочки (6 лет)

Hun I'm just thinking now what I did.I kept taking PT to see if it got lighter..its the only only thing that kept me sane.

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lozjessop_
L❤️·Мама сына (6 лет)

@delhunni197jojodan, or fb, can always chat on there if you need anybody to talk to Xx

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lozjessop_
L❤️·Мама сына (6 лет)

@delhunni197jojodan, do you have WhatsApp lovely? Xx

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@lozjessop_ awwww no way bless ya 😢she said that to me that I can either give birth or have it surgically removed,I don't want to do either tbh xx

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@zee3009 yeah in thort that hun,it doesn't make sense to me how they add more weeks on,it's the bleeding that I have had aswel tho that makes me worry,but then if my dates are wrong could it just be old blood?I'm so confused about it all,I never want to go through this again it's awful xx

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lozjessop_
L❤️·Мама сына (6 лет)

@delhunni197jojodan, yeah as the saying goes expect the worst and hope for the best🙏🏻 I’ll be praying for you🤞🏼 I went for my 12 weeks scan in 2016 and found no heartbeat😞 I had to have my waters broken and give birth was absolutely awful😢 Xxx

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zee3009
Mommy309·Мама дочки (6 лет)

@delhunni197jojodan try to go out hon.Just take it easy.Dont lift or carry anything heavy and try to occupy your mind with the outing.I know it's scary☹️

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@lozjessop_ thanks hun,I really don't think it will tho as with me bleeding and mild cramps like period pains kind of tells u it all,I'm just dreading the moment it does come away (if it does) il be so scared and upset,I dred going to toilet,if I think that rather than keep my hopes up it will be alright and when I go to my scan if they can see a baby then il be sooo happy,but don't want to think that coz if it isn't there then il be so upset more if u get me xxx

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zee3009
Mommy309·Мама дочки (6 лет)

1-2 usually means you are pregnant between 3-4 weeks according to the Clearblue info so it could be that the hospital is correct hun and that it's too early to tell.So you are actually 2 weeks pregnant because at 4 weeks pregnant it means you are 2 weeks after ovulation and 2 weeks pregnant.I hope it makes sense.I had 1-2 weeks on Clearblue and they couldn't see anything so fingers crossed that it's the same with you

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lozjessop_
L❤️·Мама сына (6 лет)

@delhunni197jojodan, I agree it’s torture😢 I hope everything works out for the better for you I really do🙏🏻 Xx

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@lozjessop_ awww that's so sad,it's the 2 weeks waiting I don't like,I no they do it incase a baby does develop but then it's also torture for us mums going through it at the same time xx

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@zee3009 thanks hun,I'm so scared,I dernt go to toilet or anything,I hated every minute of it,not been able to see the screen or anything it's just awful,I can't even bring myself to get out of bed to take my daughter to school that's how crap I feel,I'm hoping I got my dates wrong as I did a clear blue and it said 1-2 weeks,I did that on the 7th June,so I that would mean I got pregnant like the day before I did the test or somewhere there abouts,I just don't know what to do,my mum wants to come pick us up and take us out for the day but I don't want to incase anything happens while I'm out and about,but then don't want to sit around thinking and worrying all day xxx

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lozjessop_
L❤️·Мама сына (6 лет)

@delhunni197jojodan, I am so sorry hunny😞 it is the most awful thing a women has to go through in life..

I went for a scan when I were under 6 weeks and they told me I weren’t pregnant as they couldn’t see anything, I had to go back 2 weeks later and I’ll tell you it were the worst 2 weeks of my life😢 went back for a scan and we could only just see the sack and york, don’t loose all faith. I had a miscarriage in March 2016 I were over 12 weeks😢 Xx

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zee3009
Mommy309·Мама дочки (6 лет)

Hi.At 6 weeks Dr only saw a sack and I was absolutely terrified.A week and a half later I went to another Dr and she did transvaginal and saw my little peanut.And here I am..32 weeks pregnant.I know it's hard but don't give up..wait a little and go back again.Keeping you in my prayers because I know what it feels like and I know how a MC feels like as I have had 3 before.Hang in there hon.xx

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@spookylyn awww bless ya hun it is awful xxx I'm dreading it,will i get really bad pains?bleed loads?i just don't know what to expect at all,i dread waking up incase I'm bleeding bad,i can't cope with this i really can't, I want to stay positive but it's so hard when so many ppl at hospital tell you your going to miscarry xxx

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jojodan7883
Jody M·Мама троих детей

@spookylyn thank you hun,I so hope that's the case for me,I'm a big worrier as it is and to drop that on me and expect me to be normal for next two weeks is crazy;Iv got everything crossed,thanks for the comment hun xxxx

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