I’m kind of feeling guilty that my husband tend to tell me about everything he does or plan to do but I don’t.Sometimes I make decisions without consulting him but he does.He once brought that to my attention,but my mum said that I shouldn’t tell him everything.
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@babyjay27, my husband and I both never speak badly or “vent” about each other to our families. We don’t let our families know about our finances, big decisions, etc. What works best for us, and a lot of our other married friends, is to keep most things private between the two of us. You’ll never know other people’s motives for advising you one way or the other when it comes to marital things, even family. Maybe if you and your husband sit down and have a talk about what each other thinks is acceptable/unacceptable, what things you both agree to keep between the two of you, what things you definitely need to discuss together before doing, etc, it might help alleviate the issue of doing things then him being upset about the lack of communication. If you’re sure about what you and your husband think, then your moms input will become irrelevant to you and you can just politely tell her thanks for the advice but you know what works for your marriage!
@babyjay27 I'm sure if you explain it to him, he'll understand. A sincere apology goes a long way. My husband and I have learned over the years that open, honest, compassionate communication is the best way to work through any issue.
@yayacarrington, oh my god I feel bad,it’s good that I know now
I have to wonder if your mom understands what it takes to have a long term, healthy relationship. I would never keep anything from my husband. I respect him too much to treat him that way.
@mommytok, yeah I think that’s true cause I might turn out to be a bad wife. I don’t want to take my husband trust for granted.
My mom tells me the same thing and my man the same way. I don’t keep anything from my man. I tell him everything. In my view a open relationship is a healthy one.
Your mom shouldn’t be involved in your marriage like that but that’s my opinion 🤷🏽♀️
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
What do you think???? I know that I over reacting but me and the father of my kids are not in good terms.. I ask my mom to give the kids to him that's it. but he have her money to get stuff without telling me...she help him with getting a car after all he did to me...he not wanting my daughter and not been with my kids a full weekend.. I'm been doing everything alone.. I call him and he was that's not of your business.... I don't call his family at all how he is with my kids.. I'm about to give ...
@mommytok, true