Not far along at all and didn't want to tell my parents yet as I knew they would react badly. However they found the…

Yeah it's such a vulnerable time and it's when you need your parents the most which is making this really hard but I have got great support from my friends and their families which is helping massively! Aw that's really good of him, yeah me and my boyfriend will private rent but in the mean time I think I'm going to have to go to the council just so I have somewhere to stay for a little while until we sort somewhere permanent out, I know I won't be priority but even just some advice from them or something or just to be put on the list is some help. X

That’s terrible! I felt so vulnerable at the time it happened to me. We had to private rent so we had somewhere to go quicker. My baby’s dad sold his car just to get a bond together. We were both working at the time I was only in a temporary job and my contract soon ran out! I think it took At least a month for all the paper work to be sent back and forth and for us to see the house (the house we moved into was in a terrible state) i don’t know much about council housing they can’t exactly turn away a pregnant technically homeless lady.

@m.daviees it's a lot worse now. The fathers parents have kicked us out too and I'm staying at a friends house and he's allowed to stay there as long as I'm not with him, it's very messy! How long did it take you to find a place? I think I'm going to have to go into the council this week and try find somewhere for the mean time x

How are things now @steph18s, when I found out I was about 8-9 weeks and working night shifts, the day after I told them they kicked me out. Luckily the fathers parents took me in until we found a place.

@steph18s, I do hope all will be well with you too hun I’m sure it will be 😁💝 xx

@vixster yeah I've sent an application already and waiting to hear back, I hope it doesn't take too long. I feel like they've always had a plan for my life and because I've changed that and doing it my own way as of recently they just aren't happy at all, I think they're just a bit disappointed! Thank you so much, I really hope so😅xx

@rachaellw aw I'm so sorry!! I personally don't have anything against abortions and think that if that's what a mum wants to do because of stressful circumstances or whatever her situation then it's down to her and no one else should judge that! I hope you're okay! Yeah I'm going to try take a step back and even just try supporting myself more if I'm not going to get it from them. My dad's been texting me, obviously not the happiest of texts to say the least haha hmm, but I think I'll just have to give them some space and let them come to terms with what's going on and see if it's easier to speak to them in a couple days as they're on holiday at the moment anyway! Thank youu xx

@mrsmowmow yeah I know :( hopefully you're right and they're just reacting like this for now because I'm their little girl and they think I'm not ready, I guess I just have to prove them wrong and hopefully they'll come around, just wish I could enjoy this more and chill out a bit haha xx

@em93bbourn well I'm staying with my bf at his parents for now but when they find out I hope we can still stay here for a while, we know we have to look for our own place but just trying to save up as much money as we can while we don't have to pay much rent haha! Yeah he's so much more chilled about it than me at the moment and doesn't talk about it that much😂 aww that's lovely I'm glad it worked out for you!!! fingers crossed haha xxx

I had this when I was younger. I found out I was pregnant when I was 17. I finally got my own head round it and decided to carry on with the pregnancy, I told my parents who went bat shit crazy. They said they would disown me if I kept it, I was also not with the father so the pressures got to me and I ended up with having a abortion (no judging please) still to this day I regret it so so much and do resent them for it, always will. Please don’t rush into anything and take a step back and breathe, talk to them again and tell them how you feel xx

@steph18s, do you have to actually move out ? let’s hope not ! 😳🙊 but yeah I know what you mean it’s nice to talk to other people sometimes guys aren’t on the same page either lol 😂... to be honest there was someone shocked like that when i told them I was pregnant and they honestly wasn’t happy but now they are over the moon so it was worth sticking to my guns in the end and it’s all turned out ok... 🤞🏻 xxx

@em93bbourn I really hope so, I'm sure it's just down to shock but they're really not happy and told me to pack my stuff😶 yeah hopefully once they see we're serious about it they'll change their minds! Haha I hope you're not wrong! Thank you so much, needed to talk to someone other than my bf about it haha😁❤️xxx

Heyyy! :) They may just need a little time to get their heads around it ? ... just prove to them that you & your bf can and will do this & they will see your serious about it & come round 🤷🏻‍♀️ it might just be a shock to them ?.... I might be completely wrong lmao! hope your ok though hun we’re all supportive on here 😁💗 xxx