Just need to vent π€ we're moving. Despite my desire to move... my husband decided to move. I suggested paying for moving helpers but he denied. He mentioned his family will help along with some coworkers. I have a hard time trusting others... so I insisted in getting the help, but was told NO, need to save. Well... I'm currently sitting in our current apartment, the day that we're supposed to vacate, with a bunch of boxes and heavy furniture because his family is too busy deciding what handouts that we no longer need they'll take. Coworkers in plural turn into just 1 single person and nobody is listening to me. We're supposed to hand out keys in an hour. NOT GONNA HAPPEN, because no one seems to be on the same page and there's still a full load that needs to be brought to the new place. I'm just fed up, cranky, hungry and cramping. Trying not to stress out too much but ARGHHH π‘π€¬
That happened with us too. 4 people said they would help. Everything was in boxes but needed help with the furniture. Only 2 people showed. SO's best friend showed up with his girlfriend and their 4 young kids. After 30 minutes of the kids obnoxious screaming and running around, I told SO's best friend to tell his girlfriend to take the kids home. She tried saying she was there to help. I responded with um no.. you're here just because your man is here. If you want to really help then get a babysitter. SO's best friend only stayed for an hour because she wouldn't stop bytching about the kids not listening to her. My friend from college showed up and helped. Took us all day because of the lack of help.
It sucks because being high risk, there's not much I can do.