Just a little rant to get off my chest-

So on Monday we took our maternity pictures. The guy that took them is a mutual friend. He’s a beginning photographer and offered to do our maternity shoot. Everything went well and he told us he’d send us the link to the pictures “in a day or so” well yesterday morning I texted him being very polite and asked if he could send them to me later that day however I made it clear that I was not rushing him just wanted an update. That was at 6am yesterday. At 9 pm our mutual friend calls me and tells me he had told her he saw my message and that the pictures are on his laptop he just has to send them to me. At this point I’m pissed because why can’t you at least reply to me?? Our mutual friend tells me I shouldn’t “nag” and to not text him anymore because he doesn’t like “nagging people” keep in mind I had only texted him once at that point since the shoot and second of all I PAID him I expect and update or something letting me know you acknowledged my text therefore I can “nag” all I want if you’re ignoring me. So I texted him again last night around 10 pm and told him if he’s seen my message from earlier. And nothing... of course. I just got on Snapchat and I saw that he posted a picture of his laptop screen of him watching Netflix. I’m sooo irritated. And tbh I have bad anxiety so it’s so hard for me to be confrontational so idk what to do. I just hate being ignored😞