Trying to shave but I cant see anything I don't want my baby to come out while the doctors are trying to see through my hair:( it's so hard and now it's really itchy I shouldn't of put creme after words !!!!!! Shaving has never been so hard :(
@verguinia, hahaha right? such a struggle being a girl! &’ Lol the nurse was asian and on the older side. I am also asian, so im used to their comments 🤣 Im sure she didnt mean to be rude. she probably didnt even realize what she said was mean, LOL 🤦🏻♀️😭🤣
@verguinia, lmao I hear that! It’s crazy cause the birthing videos I saw a while ago the women were hairless asf like how u do that 😩😩😩😩
@mommamia18 lol I think I struggled enough for today with the shaving experience to be honest it feels so much more refreshing without all the hair I hope my baby comes like Saturday or Sunday because it won't be long for the hair to grow back lol
@verguinia, what about a chair to put next to you? I’m the same way I had to get a waterproof phone and case just to feel comfortable lmao
@mommamia18 sounds like a good idea except the water was running and I'm scared to drop my phone in the water hahaha I'm beyond clumsy no kidding
Like place it down so it’s not in ur hands but like on the tub side thing or position it
Put you’re phone under you like while you’re standing up or a mirror if you have own and use that as a guide cause just feeling around scared me i wanted to make sure I was getting it cause standing up makes me tired lol
@destinyeunique I'm going to have mine check how i did and fix it a little I mean men shave they should be experts at it lol!!!!
@tiera_shaye oh wow your brave I am not at all I'm like a chicken pain and me are totally not friends I can't even imagine birth pain again :(
@verguinia, haha as soon as me and my big belly walked in she said please don’t have this baby here lol and I didn’t think it was bad. My friend went with me and since I did good she decided to get one too and said never again. Lol but I have waxed myself before and I feel I have a pretty decent pain tolerance. But I was sore after getting it done. All the blood flow to those parts made me swell a little bit and be slightly irritated for like 2 days. That honestly hurt worse than the waxing. Lol
@tiera_shaye haha man that must of hurt she must of thought you could of gave birth durring the wax
This was me with my last pregnancy haha I talked to my midwife and she said not to shave because of the higher chance of introducing bacteria but gave me the go ahead to get waxed. So I got a full Brazilian wax at like 38 weeks pregnant 😂 the wax lady didn’t know what to think. She said it was a first for her.
@rndmshtt Mann the things we go through !!! I was very hairy though I have thick black hair and had no choice what if the baby has thick black hair they not gonna know she comming out it's mix in with my hair I just couldn't see that happening ! And that nurse sounds so rude what !!!!!!!
Haha i had that struggle my entire pregnancy! What made it worse was i was high risk, so they saw me every two weeeks almost the entire time during pregnancy, sometimes every week 🤦🏻♀️🤣 there was no room to let anny hairs grow out 😅 and when i did get lazy, i was so embarassed! One of those times i ended up in OR, and one of the nurse attendants asked the dr if she should shave me 😭🤣 but the dr told her that the hair isnt too long it shouldnt matter 😪😂
I have my husband trim it with scissors. He's a pro now 😂
@ellyium omg I didn't hear these stories but it would be too late right now I did it already lol !!!!
@kellywidener820 we had a very similar morning lol
Hahahahaha this morning I shaved for my appt and I can’t see. Got it done. Lots of blood but got it done 😂😂😂
@verguinia Have your partner trim your hair with scissors. It doesn't hurt at all. This is the method I've been doing. I heard bad stories about shaving really late in your pregnancy and it scared me away from it.
@ttbaby09 i asked him to check how i did and help after work today let's see how that would go :/
@verguinia, ohh okay. It’s not too too bad. But I understand. Maybe have you SO shave you?
@ttbaby09 I never done that and I'm sure it probably hurts alottt!!!! And I don't feel comfy letting other people look at me I'm really why it's just how I am lol
@oktoberwitch yes felt around it and then tried to look in the mirror lol with my first I also shaved the whole time because I thought the doctors where happier I had a midwife and she told me not to shave e because the hair prevents infections from entering the birth canal so then I was so confused on what was ok
Just feel around and blind shave. I shaved my entire pregnancy cuz I was terrified of drs appointments and if I went into early labor
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