Мама сына (6 лет)

I need your opinions. So this weekend was my sons 6th birthday. He was at his dads for the weekend, so when he came home…

I need your opinions.

So this weekend was my sons 6th birthday. He was at his dads for the weekend, so when he came home today I asked how his weekend was. He tells me it went okay, but he was a bit sad. When I asked him why he told me his dad didn’t get him anything for his birthday. I brushed it off as maybe my ex split on something with his mom or whatever, and tried to downplay the issue with my son so he wasn’t so upset.

Anyway, I talked to my ex’s mom later today because she’s watching my son over the summer break. She brings up that my ex didn’t get my son anything. Then she proceeds to tell me he hasn’t bought him anything for the past year for any holiday (Christmas, etc.) my son knows not everyone is going to get him something, but this is his DAD. Should I bring it up or let it go?

This is kind of tough. I might bring it up as mildly as possible and ask if there's a reason that his dad isn't giving him gifts anymore? Maybe he's tight on money. Or maybe he just decided he's not buying gifts anymore. But I think I would at least want to know if he plans to continue not getting gifts for his son so that you can set that expectation with him rather than your son being disappointed at every holiday because Dad didn't get him anything again.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont…

Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??

So my ex went to court and filed for visitation rights. I was served last week. I am not comfortable with our daughter…

So my ex went to court and filed for visitation rights. I was served last week. I am not comfortable with our daughter being around him alone nor his mother which he lives with. I have proof of him asking me to take his drug test for his job for him in text messages and him texting me he was too high to drive and get our daughter milk. Is that enough to show the judge? As far as his mother she watches his son quite often and told us she gives him nighttime medicine if she has problems getting him to go to sleep at night. (Claims she did it with my ex when he was little too) And she FaceTimed us once mid day while taking his son back to his mother, she gave him night time medicine bc she didn’t want him talking the whole ride and wanted him to sleep. He was so out of it. It just scares me to leave her alone with them.

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

What kind of sick person does this?

What kind of sick person does this? My ex is making accusations about me that I hit my son with a belt. I posted about my concern that his grandpa is using a belt or the threat of a belt around him. I never accused anyone, I simply wanted an explanation as to why he got hitting with a belt was a thing The first thing my ex does is call his lawyer to protect his dad and claim I'M hitting him with a belt. I don't even spank! Can't he get into trouble for making false allegations? That is so awful