If you had a kid and your child’s father wanted to bring someone part of the family who has been nothing but toxic to you and your child would you allow them in your child’s life?
If they said you deserve to have no part in your child’s life and has attempted to kick you out of i, would you allow them in your child’s life?
My husband and I aren’t seeing eye to eye with him bringing his toxic sister in my daughters life. She has done nothing but prove she doesn’t respect me or my husband yet he wants so badly for her to meet our 2 year old daughter. I understand he wants to see her and her kids and that’s fine, but I dont approve of her trying to come in and be apart of our life as if she deserves to be apart of any of our life.
Maybe I’m being ridiculous, I feel like I am. But I also feel like I’m being disrespected af during this whole thing. I’ve finally given in and the told him whatever ... I just don’t feel like this marriage isnt successful if we can’t work this out to where we both are happy with it.
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.....no advice....following because I’m dealing with a crazy unstable lady too...So far im putting my foot down, what’s best is what’s best for my kids and toxic, unreliable, unstable people are not what’s best for them.
i wouldn’t, i would keep as much toxicity out of my kids life as possible. family/friends idc who you are if you can’t respect me as the parent of the child, then you do not get to be disrespectful to me in front of my child. kids feed off the energy around them and they are soooo observant.
@twistedrenots, that’s the thing. We’ve done this in the past when she was an infant. She came into our home and told me everything “wrong” with it. And told me she deserves a better mother than I am. That’s when she was small and didn’t comprehend the horrible thing she has to say. Now she is talking and understanding words a bit more and I know this women is going to walk in here and say something.
Anyone who disrespects me isn't allowed around my kid. That's just how I feel. If your husband is really wanting it, even though it might suck, maybe make a compromise where she can come over to your house as long as you both are there when the child is there. The first second she starts something, that'll be it. At least you can say you tried. But if there is no compromising, oh well lol its obviously both your kid so you both have to agree.
Someone who is disrespectful towards you or your child has no need to be a part of your life and your husband should agree. My husband's sister threatened me while I was pregnant. She has not seen me, my daughter, or my husband since then. Her calls go unanswered, etc. She has burned that bridge beyond repair.