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Carla
Carla
Мама дочки (1 год)

Since I hit puberty I have had big boobs - it’s in my DNA! I absolutely hate them & have been considering a breast…

Since I hit puberty I have had big boobs - it’s in my DNA! I absolutely hate them & have been considering a breast reduction. The point of my post is when ppl I know say things like “omg your boobs are SO big” “carla your boobs are huge” etc etc, I always think to myself “how would they feel if I said OMG your boobs are so small! Wow it’s crazy how small your boobs are.” They would take such offense to that! So what makes it okay to say to me how big mine are? I understand they are WAY bigger than average, but still annoys me that ppl don’t think at all about how I might take offense to that.

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asandovaln

April

Мама дочки-младенца

Story of my lifeee!!

inkedsouthernbelle

Amber McCowin

I understand what you’re saying. I myself am 5’1 and have had DD since I was 14. I used to be embarrassed by them but now that I’m 33 I’ve accepted that EVERYONE is gonna notice that first about me and that’s fine because when you think about it, for me at least, the alternative could be lopsided or sunken chest or some other crazy boob deformity and I know you’re initially disturbed by people’s remarks towards that intimate part of your body you can never hide but just own them and be proud girl! You’re gorgeous!

briannalynn547

Brianna Montgomery

If you ever get a reduction please please please look into the doctor really well . A doctor messed my moms boobs up so bad 😭

trollalalala

Your Mom Is A Troll

It’s like body shaming really skinny people or commenting on how big a pregnant belly is. People just need to think before they speak 🤦🏻‍♀️

sherrynygirl

sherry S

I know how you feel I'm 5'2 with natural DDD..s I have had women stare at me when their men stare ...I can wear a sweater hard to hide big boobs...and yes it's rude the way people will say shit w/ out thinking

jennatess

jenna tess

After I have my last child (if I do), I will be having a reduction. I’ve lived on both sides: having a small chest and having a large chest.

Having a large chest is the WORST.

ladyblauvelt

Allyson Almeda

I've always had larger breasts too, people think expressing how big they are and what not is like a compliment, like they are saying you're so lucky you have such nice huge boobs because that's what every girl wants right? They don't realize how much of a hassle they can be though and how awkward it is when people can't not stare. I had Ds before my first son, then they jumped to DDS, and right now in maternity bras, G sizes barely fit so... It's definitely a pain in the ass, (or should I say back 😅) but also, they don't make cute bras in those sizes either... Not unless you want to spend a lot of money

jewlmama

Julianna J

Мама двоих (младенец)

It’s not even just offense it’s annoying to hear time & time again. Nobody should have to be constantly reminded about a body part they have.

babyking1

Carla

Мама дочки (1 год)

@jewlmama, I take offense to it because it’s a double standard. It’s ok to say it to me because you’re saying they’re big but not okay for me to say that to someone who has small boobs.

babyking1

Carla

Мама дочки (1 год)

@inkedsouthernbelle, aww thank you! I’ve hated them for a while though and am sick of being constantly reminded of how big they are. Like ummmm HELLO they’re on my body I think I’m aware of how big they are

Here is an example. This is my best friend here but even she doesn't understand so I'm kindly explaining to her what I…

Here is an example. This is my best friend here but even she doesn't understand so I'm kindly explaining to her what I been trying to Explain here but ppl were being rude to me. This virus may not be serious to some of us but it is a big deal to others. She's pregnant so I told her to be careful. . Don't get me wrong I don't wanna get sick but I also don't wanna spread it to people who it may kill you know. It still can have long term effects however to us as well. So when some ppl say they don't understand why ppl are making it a big deal , that's why. Lets be considerate of others in these times as well & their needs. Worry about yourself and your family of course but still be mindful before assuming something isn't a big deal.