We split up maybe two weeks ago and I’m 16 weeks pregnant

I want to start with you are beautiful as hell 😍.. I know it isn't easy and it hurts reading those words. I was once there. He is right. You'll only be hurting yourself if you chase him and he doesn't want to be together. Learned the hard way. But it's so much easier to say "move on" then to actually move on, especially when you love someone. I don't know why he doesn't want the relationship but I do know when you move on and show him you don't need him he'll be crawling back to you. It's science. Keep your head up and if you need to talk feel free to message me. Come read all of these ladies comments when you feel weak because they are speaking the truth. It takes time to heal, love.

You deserve better he’s an ass

Hello, devil's advocate here: a man had a right to leave a relationship he isn't happy with. He doesn't have to stay. And you shouldn't want someone who doesn't want this with you. Now is the time to figure out co- parenting

Save yourself some time & heart ache... U can find a better guy who sympathizes and cares for you. It doesn't matter if ur preggo or not. He is showing he is heartless believe em

You deserve better. Let him go, and focus on you, your baby girl and your unborn child. With time, things will get better.

Girl heck no he’s to disrespectful protect you and your child

Unfortunately you can't force someone to want to be with you or return the feelings you have for them. It sucks and it's definitely hard since you're pregnant but he obviously doesn't care about you or the baby. You don't want someone like that in your life anyways... It's best to move on because he's telling you straight up he doesn't want to be with you, even if he stayed just for the baby, neither of you will ever really be happy and he probably wouldn't be a good father if his heart isn't in it... You'd end up splitting up either way trust me. You can do this on your own, and you will have the chance to find someone who will truly love you and want to be with you and love your kids too. Give yourself the chance to find happiness elsewhere because you won't find it with him.

It’s time to move on. As much as it hurts when you’re not ready, he’s being open, honest and clear. Kudos to him for not dragging it on. Only contact him in regards to your child and move on.

I’m sorry hun, but you can’t hold on to him if he made it clear that he has no feelings left for you. 😔 I hope things get better.

I'm going to be honest, he's right. You're only going to hurt your self. If he's not interested in being with you then nothing is going to make it work. Clinging like that will only push him away more. It looks like your only option is to move on. I know it sucks with a baby on the way but that baby needs you to be happy.

I know this hurts @savannahrae, but honestly I’d rather have someone be up front with me and tell me they don’t want to be with me than to trick me into thinking they do and cheat on me later . Before my husband I was with a guy who constantly cheated and then kept telling me he really loved me and wanted to be with me but his actions did not show it . I felt that I wasted years of my life and I wish he would have just told me he didn’t want to be with me. It’s better to hurt now with the truth than to be hurt later with a lie. HUGS... hopefully you can coparent and be cordial with each other for the sake of the baby. It just sucks that you’re pregnant and going through this when I know you want to keep the family together .

Never chase love or affection if it isn't given freely by another person it isn't worth having

I don’t know the back story but it seems like he is being honest with you and telling you he wants out. Let him go. Easier said than done. This sucks, especially when you are pregnant, but you can’t fight for someone who doesn’t want to be fought for.

Don't let him know you care... He'll come crawling back.

You’re clinging to him like he is the only man alive. Move on. If it’s meant to be he will find you.

I am sorry hun. Sometimes as hard as it is, you gotta let him go. He isn’t worth your time. He clearly doesn’t care for you or your feelings. You deserve to be with someone who cares about you and respects you!

Girl that's his loss...let him go....sorry sweetie

From experience babe you gotta let him go, I know how hard it is , but you have to understand you are worth someone that wants all of you , you’re worth more then what he’s willing to give. I understand you are having his baby and letting go sucks but he is right you are only going to hurt yourself at the end of it all. I’m sorry you are going through this if you need someone to talk to you can pm me. Guys are assholes but never settle for less then you deserve & your children deserve.

As soon as the baby is born i would sue him for child support

Girl let him go. He’s disrespectful, and has no morals.