I'm heartbroken and sick to my stomach… My niece (actually my ex's niece but I still claim her)reached out to me last night. She wanted to make sure that Dds adoption went through because she wanted to let me know I did the right thing. I asked what she was talking about and she told me that when she was about 12 her uncle ( dds bio) exposed himself to her while she was at our house. She said nothing else happened but he was trying to convince her it was OK. I am so sad that she didn't feel comfortable coming to me that night. The one person she did go to her grandma Who has custody of her told her never to tell anyone and she knew that her son had a problem.i'm sad and pissed off. I wish I would've known I could've protected that little girl. She just turned 16 and afraid that all people Are as fucked up as her family. I told her how sorry I was I didn't know. I'm so glad he's in prison now and my daughter will never know him. My niece just moved back in with her mom so hopefully she starts to feel safe to open up soon. I'm so glad I've cut them all off. But I will always be there for her. I'm sorry I don't really know what the point of posting is. I just feel sick to my stomach I wish I would've known. But then again if I would've known there would be no dd. I love my girl to the moon just not the scum that helped me make her. I'm so glad we're all free of him.
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Oh, I’m sorry, I think I do remember. How are you and your husband doing? Keeping you in prayer @kitkat-1987,
@punky.brewster it's my ex dds biological father that I split up with when she was 6 weeks old. About a year after we split he got charged with lewd acts against his than girlfriends 6 and 9 year old daughters. But yes my husband finally got to adopt her in January
Oh, I’m sorry. I must’ve missed something. I didn’t know you had split or he was in prison, or even the adoption.
But I agree with everything @caffeine.fiend, said. I’m sorry you have to be experiencing this during this time.
I agree with everything @caffeine.fiend, said
You can’t blame yourself at all for what he turned out to be like, trust me I know a pedophile (family member who I have completely cut off out of my life) and they can be very good at blending in as normal people, it could happen to anyone
I’m so sorry you’re having to go trough this and have all of this weight on your shoulders
I’m sooooo sorry she had to experience that! I know you would’ve advocated for her had you known. Please don’t blame yourself, as I’m sure you couldn’t have known how bad hints were. You’re doing great, and you’ve done the best thing you could for your daughter
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