I’m so freaking angry right now at people treating my youngest son like he’s nothing compared to my oldest he’s just as important. I can tell that he’s starting to notice how his own family treats him differently and I’m sick and tired of it. My son should not have to experience that at this age but yet people are showing him how they treat others sorry for the rant
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My family does it to my second baby who is 15 now and it hurt him till he just started not giving a crap. They always put my oldest on a pedestal above my second but now my 3rd and 4th they are mad because they dont live in Ohio with them so cousins can grow up together. I love living away from my family because I'm that odd one out child and all they like is drama. I've always done better on my own
@let_there_be_life, I can’t stand it I have to do the same so that he doesn’t feel like he’s less
I have the same issue with my so family treating my daughter way better than my son and he definitely notices it. I always have to over compensate for them. I have talked and talked to them about it, only helps fora short time than back to the same shit
I understand this on some degree. My children are not my husband's family's "biological grandkids" (he was adopted, unofficially), so my kids are pretty much chopped liver whenever the other grandkids are around. I hate it. I'm so happy we're heading back to my home state in another year.
That’s awful I’m sorry! Try sitting down with the ones doing it when your kids aren’t around and explain that it is not appropriate to do so
@micjulzac3, I’ve always been alone in my own family but I just don’t understand how my kids fathers family would feel that it’s okay to treat him different just because he doesn’t take after them in looks like his older brother my oldest he takes more after my family so instead of tearing him equal they choice to stick with the familiar and I hate it they are brothers just because one looks more like their dad than the other just doesn’t seem fair to me