I hate sex so bad I don't understand how I made two babies 😂😂

I agree with @honeyxxbee .. I need mines!!

@honeyxxbee Sex itself has never been pleasurable to me. I can't "get there". Never been able to with just intercourse. I can ALMOST get there with foreplay but sex itself just doesn't do anything. Starting to wonder if something is wrong with me 😂

@mommyofakween Just count your blessings lol

You mean internal stimulation. Many women can't orgasm from just internal stimulation. You're not alone.

@honeyxxbee I've tried so many things, 😒 I'm glad it doesn't bother me that much lol and @kambam yes!! That's it! Thank you for giving me the term I couldn't think of lol it totally sucks but I'm glad to know I'm not alone. My husband tries he truly does and he's amazing but it's just one of them things that's just not happening 😓😥

I shouldn't have said I "HATE" it. I don't technically hate sex. I love being able to please and have sexy time with my husband but it's frustrating at times.

Bless his heart. Well hopefully you're not suffering through just to please him 😅 always tell him exactly what you want and need! Do you have a vibrator? If not, try one with him 😉

@kambam Yes! My vibe is one of my prized possessions, that is one of three things in a fire I would grab 😂 it's literally about the only way I can get mine. I'm so curious though if their is a difference in orgasms you get with toys and regular sex?

Like a virgiiiiiinnnn 🎵🎤

Have u and him ever tried a penis ring?? I heard those are really helpful to woman who have a hard time “ getting there “ !! I used to be the same way my whole sex life and once I got with my babies dad I always get there with no problems ...

Lol same, girlfriend. I think it depends on the person. But if you use toys with a partner it's a complete experience. Toys alone is just efficient 😆

@marielovely We haven't tried one of those! I'll definitely give it a try. I'm glad you found someone who gets you there!! I don't think mines a partner issue, I think it's just how my body is 🤗

@kambam I don't think mine is an issue with my husband. No one else has ever even gotten me close. I may just feel that way because he's my husband and I love him. But damn lol

@krs1415, probably not your body but it could be .. but I’ve always I thought the same thing about me .. until I found the right person lol

I've never had internal O's only clitoral aka: manual. Definitely takes time to achieve too! But thankfully I'm more interested in the penetration of sex not the O!

@marielovely haha uh ohs 😂 I hope it's not me but guess I'll never truly find out lol

@hollyn216 I've never heard of someone being more interested in the penetration instead of the O. That's definitely something to think about. Maybe if I focus more on that part I can trick my brain!! Haha

@krs1415 Girl it's not just you. You know 80% off women don't organism like ever!! I'm a freak lol so I get there lol but girl it's not just you and there is an actual name for people who don't care for sex period. There was a documentary I watched on a stripper and she was cool with dancing but when it came to having sex, she could never get into it 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

@hollyn216 Oh girl ur a freak too lol lol jk 😂😂

Wait are you pregnant ? If so that may be the reason ! I was the same way for my last son kmsl ! I would think “ ughhh sex is nasty “

Lol

Same, with this pregnancy I get utis and infections down there so easily it’s not fun

Don't feel bad. I never really had a high sex drive either.