✋ I was a side chick when I was 18. He was 22 and his girl friend was 20. He would literally spend all day with her and as soon as he would drop her off, he would pick me up and we would be together. It was really sad actually. I completely knew she was around and I didn't give a crap. He broke up with her after a couple of months of us fooling around. Then he got a new girl friend and I was still the side chick ?. After about a month of that I stopped it. He is now engaged with the girl, even though he cheated on her, multiple times with me. She has absolutely no idea. Judge all you want. I deserve it. I thought I was so IN LOVE with him. Once he picked another girl over me I was done. Who knows how many other girls there were/are. He's a model and cocky so it probably got to his head.

I was a side chick when I was younger , idk what the f*** was wrong with me , low self esteem? Totally f*** ed up my head though knowing how easy it is to lie to your SO on the phone while you're lying next to someone else? now my trust issues are messed up , I never had a real relationship so now that I'm in one I feel so bad that I ever did that to someone I would never do it again

I'll be back ?

Sort of, maybe, accidentally? I didn't know and then when I did I bought the "she's lying" for a bit and then I saw the light and ghosted him

Yup... But he was mine, too. We were both officially with other people but couldn't stay away from each other. Hate away.

I used to be fwb with this guy. We had that situationship for about a year or so until I got on Twitter and saw him giving his girlfriend flowers. Brought it up the next time I saw him and he froze up, it was hilarious. I told him he didn't need to explain anything to me, it's gross how he could do that. I was done after that ?

I wasn't his side chick, but before SO and I were together, I was definitely lusting over him while he was in a relationship. They went "on break" (basically not together anymore but him sleeping on the couch) and we still didn't do anything, but I definitely pushed the bounds of what would be acceptable (holding onto his arm, flirty comments, etc). He was too clueless to catch on. Then, they got back together, and I backed off a lot. Then one morning she slapped him numerous times while holding keys, giving him a few gashes. That was the end of that relationship. He crashed at my house, since my parents were out of town. Still didn't catch on when I was cuddling him on the couch while watching movies. We went to a fair together, and I shocked the s*** out of him by kissing him on the Ferris wheel. From then on, he's been stuck with me. ?

I'm too jealous to be anyones "side chick" ?

I have been but it was a complicated situation and it turned into something it was never meant to be. This was several years ago and I'm not that person anymore. I never ever would put myself in that position again.

Yes, I have not my proudest moment but, in high school my bf cheated on me and left me for this girl. In return..... I f***ked him many times while he was with her, he even told me he'd rather be with me and offered to leave her. I told him no, but at the time I felt so good about doing that to her, like she deserved it. ?

I've had someone try to make me the side chick but even at 18 I knew that ish was wrong.

I've found out about exes having side chicks and left I'm not going to be an option eff that

I'm not into competing for a man thats already taken. Hell, I don't compete for men, period. Women are worth so much more than being someone's side piece. Just my opinion, but someone who is willing to be a side chick has serious insecurities and needs to work on themselves. Plus, the heart break, increase in body counts?, and emotional attachment isn't worth it in the end.

Nope. I've been in that situation, but I wouldn't do that to another woman.

If it were meant to be, I wouldn't be his side chick. And he wouldn't have one either.

I was one of many side chicks to a non-married man. I had no idea until after we slept together that he was heavily involved with another girl in our nursing program, went home with her on the holidays, their families were together, they were dating. But when I asked him if they were together before we started messing around, he said they weren't involved.

My roommate ended up working with her and knew me and this guy were involved, so when she started talking relationship talk with the other girl and found out how involved they were, she let me know. I broke it off with him, called the other girl and let her know everything that was going on and how many other people he told me he was with after confronting him. I honestly felt terrible for her.

Absolutely not. As a woman I would never knowingly do that to another woman. It's been done to me and it's awful. Smh at all of you who don't seem to have a problem with it. What goes around comes around.

Never

My ex husband had 6 side chicks. 2 were prego by the time I filed for divorce after finding out.

Nope. I don't share well, let alone my partner lol.

I hate to admit this but I was a side chick once upon a time.

When I was 18 a close male friend of mine who I had been in love with for years was finally single and we started dating, I was over the moon about it. About a month or two into the relationship he confessed that he had never actually broken up with his girlfriend and that he was still with her but was actually in love with me. I knew in my heart I should have left him the minute he told me that but after being In love with him for so long and finally being with him I acted like it was no big deal and continued to see him. The relationship lasted another month or so and I hated myself more each day that it went on, I finally woke up to myself and realised he didn't love me and he didn't love her either, he was just an a****** who wanted to have his cake and eat it too. I was disgusted in myself for staying with him and for being the other woman and even months later when I found out from her that she had cheated on him their entire relationship and that she knew about me and him but didn't care it still didn't make me feel any less horrible about what I had done.

Dh and I would flirt at work and went out to eat once before we both left the people we were with. He filed for a divorce (she was in the process of moving out, before we even talked to each other) and I broke up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years because I wasn't happy.

So I guess I was a side chick one time and his girlfriend for a month before his divorce was final.

And no, I've never accidently landed on a married ? if that means im uppity ?

Yolo. I'm uppity.

All I know is, don't let your husband go to subway without you. Remember, there's a hot chick waiting to steal your man that works there.

I'd like to think this would never happen to me....rather I would never allow myself to be in this situation but I have a good friend in that situation and honestly I feel scared for her. Acts like she never saw snapped?

Secrets are secrets ...???

No!! Before my husband I was messing around with this guy I really liked, bastard had a pregnant gf. I found out and I felt horrible for the poor girl! I Broke it off immediately and never spoke to him again.

I know this is going to sound bad....? I was a freshman in high school and casually had sex twice with my ex best friend boyfriend, he was originally my boyfriend first in middle school but I was a virgin at the time and didn't have sex with him while together then I broke up with him for someone else. Does that count as a side chick? If not then no.

@serenasmommy Lol! You said you were a side chick, but didn't specify if it was with a married man. So in all fairness I was referring to anyone who sleeps with married men. Sleeping with someone who isn't married and is still taken is pretty bad, but when it comes to marriage I just think that's way over the line.

That was my goal pp ?

No for real, I made myself hungry with that one too. I'm sorry lmao

What is with all the food references?! Y'all are making me all kinds of hungry and it isn't even dinner time yet!

No, no and no.

It's like this, in a relationship, I'm like the best piece of steak you can find, you don't need a side of mash potato or green beans wit me, I'm good and satisfying all on my own. ?

ya feel?

Any woman who knows and willingly sleeps with a married man is disgusting and should be ashamed of themselves!! No respect whatsoever!!!

Never.. I know how it feels to be hurt like that. A side chick will never really play her "role" if she's in love. I had a side chick call and tell me EVERYTHING some true and other things made up but I would never put someone else through that hurt if its meant to be it will be

I'm too jealous and crazy so no. If he really loved me/ cared about me, he would make me his one & only.

Technically, I haven't been a side chick to a married man BUT I did steal my best friend's boyfriend. Was not my proudest moment in high school. ? That guy was such a loser too.

Also does role playing that your the side chick count? This is vital information for... A very close friend. ?

Omg... Why do y'all have to bring up the pizza post?! I want little Caesar's now ?

Only one time in my life did I end up having a casual dating experience with a married man.......

Until....

I found out he was INDEED married, and I blew up on his @ss and what's worse is, I found she had some sort of cancer, or sickness. Smh

Been a side chick before. I had no idea he was engaged but they separated the time me and him started dating.. Well thanks to Facebook I found out. And the guy still called me on his wedding day (with a different number cause I blocked him after I confronted him) telling me he was obligated to marry her and he can't stop thinking about me.???

I was unfortunately the "side chick". I didn't know I was. I really thought I was the only woman in his life and my whole world came crashing in on me Dec. 7 when I had my first ultrasound and found out later that night that my unborn son's father was in a relationship with another girl for 5 years.

So I guess you can say I'm the pregnant side chick.

Yummm. crazy bead with sauce!

I actually prefer those cheap $5 pizzas. And some crazy bread! ?

Maybe he was cheap and got little caesar lol?

Well, she said he wouldn't order her pizza as in deliver so I'm guessing Pizza Hut. Or dominoes.

Or does papa johns deliver

Well I just don't see any point in lying about who I am.

Eta but it's OK. Being judged by others is part of life.

Smyer26

Ohhhhhh I thought I missed the pizza post but you just refreshed my bad pregnancy brain lol!!

Um belle you mean my main chick right? ?

Also, I have been a side chick on accident. I found out from his wife that he was married. ? Oops!

The "I don't love my so, but he just cheated on me but I forgave him, but then the a****** didn't buy me pizza" post??

@awkward I remember the pizza post ? I think she dirty deleted pretty quickly. I mean she forgave him for cheating, he could have at least bought her a damn pizza.

Just being honest. I've made bad choices in my life and learned from them. Have you always been so perfect? Teach me your ways.

I missed the pizza post..now I feel lost

And why yes, I have been cheated on a time or two.

My sarcasm sucks tonight. I'm sorry.

You guys missed the pizza post? ?

I actually like you, accidentally.

The pizza was pretty popular. Just like hiding bread.

I've never been a side chick but I've had a side di* k

I'm Megz's side chick.

Okay juicy confession coming. Y'all know my ex cheated and left for his side piece when I was pregnant. Now mind you, she knew about me and she knew he was in a relationship but tried to play the dumb card.

Anyway, she got pregnant by him and I repaid the favor by sleeping with him. Call me petty Betty ?. No I don't want his sorry @ss but we have always had great sexual chemistry and I got caught in a moment.

Edit: Or maybe a few moments ???.

Just make sure if he does miraculously cheat on you, that he needs to buy you pizza right after, okay?

???I_accidentally His ? is off limits

I've seen crazier things on BB before. ?

Plus, he's sweet and everything, even buying vagisil for you. Not everyone here has a good husband!

It says a lot about Ur morals n self worth if u been a side chick.

Does it count if one hits on you and you flirt back and THEN see they have a relationship already? Or do you have to like go through your own side "relationship" to be a side chick?

Nope. It's either only me or not me at all. ☺

I havent been the side chick...and I wont say I wouldnt be because I dont know my destiny, NONE OF US DO!

Accidentally, if you keep it up, one of them are going to prove you wrong and accidentally end up on your DH?

Not even for a man who's separated, or kinda divorced.... Nope!!! Still married yo!

Nah not me

I would never. I have heard about it going wrong too many times. The man swears he's separated. Living in separate rooms. Just staying there for the kids. Blah blah blah.

If he's still got a ring on it, I wouldn't even think of it.

No, I wouldn't want to be the side chick...idk why anyone would want that. One time when I was younger a guy probably at least 10 years older manipulated me and had sex with me..it was technically consensual. I found out he had a gf & now they're engaged. I always wonder if she knows what a sleeze ball she's marrying.

Never

I would never be someone's side chick that being said I did however once end up in a situation where to my knowledge the guy was single. Once o found out I walked away. I was so humiliated and I informed his girlfriend.

Nope, never have been and never will be.

If it was Chris Evens, yes. My heart tells me we're meant to be.

Anyone else, nah I'm good.

Nope. I won't even be a "main chick". If I'm not your ONLY "chick" then bye.