Hey ladies does this make me a bad person im 19 with 2 kids I met my husband 4 Year’s ago when I was 15 I was into drugs and drinking really bad well I ended up stopping and now I have 2 beautiful babies am I a horrible person for thinking maybe I shouldn’t be here like I grew up to fast sometimes I miss being free but I wouldn’t ever do anything or leave my family I just see all the people I use to hang with and they still have so much fun because they don’t have kids but when I feel like that Ik damn well that I have everything right here with me that I need and a house so why do I feel like this it’s every girls dream to have a house babies and a hubs and ! How do I help work through this I need to talk but I can’t talk to anyone or I get judged over it
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I don't have kids but i got married when i was 19 and I've had that feeling before
@mrschanandlerbong95, thank you I do drink on the weekends with my brother and husband and we do stuff on the weekend but it’s weird I just want half a second to breathe away from my hubby and kids it’s like I can’t even pee it just gets stressful
Not at all. I’m 23 with 2 kids and 2 on the way. I’ve been married to my husband for 4 years, but we’ve been together since I was 14. I’ve never really felt like I’m missing out on what everyone else is doing, because that’s never really been my scene. I’ve always been maternal and a care taker, even a child, so I feel like this is what I’m meant to be, but I know a lot of young moms do feel this way.
It’s okay to find a balance between having some fun and being a mom. Obviously you shouldn’t get back into doing drugs or underage drinking, but it’s okay to go out with friends and dance and have a good time every once in a while. A lot of times we moms kind of lose ourselves in being a mom. Eventually we feel like that’s all that we are, but that doesn’t have to be true. You still have the time to go to school and find a career you love and have something for yourself a little bit.
I don’t think that makes you a bad person at all. We all miss our freedom sometimes. Heck, I’m 29 and have been wanting kids my whole life and I miss my freedom a lot. But they make it worth it. And I figure they’re only little once then I’ll have some freedom back. I know what you’re feeling, but just know you’re not a bad person❤️
There's still ways to have fun though, i make sure i do. This past weekend i went over and met some people who are living near me in a camper, their out of state pipeline workers but we drank and partied for a while.