Please tell me I am not alone here... but I have lost my sex drive COMPLETELY! Anyone else have this problem?

Please do, Hun. It will make your relationship so much better. Be honest and make sure he feels loved in other ways. I know that my guy has a major sweet tooth and I am really good at baking, so if it were me, I'd bake him one of his favorite desserts every week. Or a favorite food, maybe take him out to do a favorite activity. Something to bond over and remind you both why you fell in love and decided to bring a child into this world in the first place. I know it sounds corny, but when my guy and I got together, he said he was so in love with me, and that we'd have so much love that one day we wouldn't be able to contain it so we would bring another person into the world just to love. Low and behold, almost five years later, the little man has made his appearance. Lol

When I was pregnant with my son it was terrible I didn’t get my sex drive back till he was about six months. It hasn’t been so bad this pregnancy but I’m hardly ever in the mood

@tavi.young, thank you so much! Yeah I haven’t actually sat him down and talked about it it’s only come up during arguments or if he is trying to make a move and I reject him and even then I don’t say this is how I feel this pregnancy I just say I’m not in the mood or brush it off. Thanks I’m going to talk with him about it tonight!

Completely normal girl. Just make sure to communicate with your significant other so they understand and hopefully can be supportive for ya. Shouldn't be an issue but if they don't know what to expect (especially if different) it can take them a back and they can feel unwanted. Focus the extra time on you and extra snuggle time with your boo thang XD Plenty of ways to make them feel loved<3

I lost mine completely. Didn't get it back until he was a few months old.

I didn't even want to cuddle most of the time!

@mommynmotion i would cry sometimes and say i am sorry i dont know what wrong with me. He was confused because with my first we literally had sex all the time like sometimes 5 times a day and then i got pregnant again and then nothing. I felt so bad

@lillynellasmom, omg I relate to this so much! He asks me all the time if I still love him or if I have found someone else🙁

I did...but it picked back up when i got into my 3rd trimester...now i always want it

@leslyev92, true I didn’t think about it that way! Kind of like when animals are going on heat my body is already pregnant and not sending the get pregnant hormones lol

Lol yeah my husband thought i didnt love him any more or find him attractive. I feelt so bad i was like get away from me and sometime made myself just lay there horrible I know my husband couldn't do that to me.

@mommynmotion, no that’s normal, maybe later on you’ll want to but if the sex drive doesn’t come back that’s okay too. Your body feels like it doesn’t need it 🤷🏻‍♀️

But is back

Me i didnt want my hubby touhinh me 4 the hell of it lol

@lillynellasmom, @leslyev92, @cit0.bunni, omg I thought something was wrong! My poor boyfriend lol it’s terrible bc we tried so hard for this baby I was crazy like we have to do it now 3 times! And now just nothing!!! Lol

Completely lost it with my first. My poor husband hahaha

This pregnancy is a little early to tell because I just feel sick

Not with this pregnancy but with my 2nd that happened to me. Completely lost it, didn’t want it, felt disgusted by even the thought of it.

With my second pregnancy i lost it.

@angelfoodcake, omg I feel offended when he looks at me girl 🤣

Happens every pregnancy for me 😭 and when it happens I'm like a minute man, lol. I guess that's not a real compliant though. But it's like really YO