this girl just implied if you give your baby a pacifier that means you’re a bad mom bc you’re…

Is she on here?

@nitarose070793, no she’s on my facebook lol

@kartersmommyy oh okqy lol just block her if she's an idiot. Lol Lol love how people without kids think they knkw it all

@mamabird228, exactly! 😡 ppl just don’t understand. she doesn’t even have kids which makes me even more mad she has no idea what she’s talking about

Love when a Woman who has NO children tells a Mother her thoughts hahahah there's a reason NOT every woman is meant to be a Mother @kartersmommyy

Don’t worry about her. Might it cause issues in the long run? Yup. But you know this as a parent. One of my girls self soothes. She sucks on her finger and has been since she was in the womb (literally have a ultrasound picture with it in her mouth) it is something that I’m currently working on.

One thing I’ve learned as a parent is everybody has something to say. ESPECIALLY those who don’t have children. Lol. Wait until they have them and then watch how things change🤷🏾‍♀️

Yeah someone told me that only lazy mother's use a pacifier. She also didn't have any kids

Babies find comfort in sucking lol she dumb

@nitarose070793, yupp she needs to wait til she has kids then she can put her 2 cents in lol

The hospital gave my son a paci literally to shut him up! I wasn't happy about the circumstance it was under but has been a lifesaver since then. Sometimes when we're out somewhere, he has a full belly, a clean bum and is just being fussy all he wants is his paci and goes straight to sleep and eventually spits it out. It's always women with no children who seem to dish out the most "advice". Wait til she actually has children! It will all change 😂😂😂

@sherrynygirl, yup! my thoughts exactly!

@kartersmommyy yup and then I bet her 2 cwnts will change

@achappex3, can’t wait til she does & she can see for herself lol

@shellbell0391, exactly!!

@momof5brats, omg i hate ppl

@mamagunn.no.1, that’s exactly how my son is!

@kartersmommyy sometimes they just want it hey! Nothing else will satisfy 😂 lol

My son had a pacifier until he turned 2. His father used it as a plug but I never did and I'm not with his father anymore and that's one of the many reasons why...

Both my kids took pacifiers. I guess I’m a bad mom lol

They actually have a study that say it is good for a baby

I would also like to add, there is evidence of a decreased rate of SIDS in babies who use a pacifier for the first year of life - some people! #geteducatedorgetout 🤔

My son is almost 1 and still uses a pacifier. I’m not sure when I will take it away but I’m hoping by 2. We will see 🤷🏼‍♀️.

I have my newborn a paci in the hospital and he nurse said ‘awww Baby your mom is giving you the fake thing huh? You’re probably so upset’ I started bawling and asked for a new nurse

When I wasn't a mom I said I'd never give one either just because they seemed like a pain in the ass (which they are lol) well I didn't know shit just like that girl apparently. I'm a bad mom because my girl needed one after hours of crying I thought I'd give her a binky, I was desperate. Well what do ya freaking know she instantly stopped crying because sucking was comforting to her. Then I found out it helps with SIDS too. One of my biggest fears at the time.

@crai, right? Lol

I tried so hard to get my youngest to take a paci but she was in search of her thumb forever 😑 now I have two thumb suckers

Ignore her. If giving you child a binkie is the worst thing you are doing as a parent I call that a win.

Guess I’m a bad mother then 🤷🏽‍♀️ oh well thought my daughter was well taken care of I.e feed, clothed, bathed, etc. but what do I know lol guess she’s not all over a pacifier oh well

@august.rae, should have cussed her out who does she think she is giving her unwanted input on how to soothe your child

@nlock, I did and i got So uncomfortable

@august.rae, that nurse was wrong . I had to give my daughter one in the hospital cause they wanted to do the car seat test or whatever she was hungry and they wanted us out so it was either she cry or get the paci I then feed her once the test was over . The nerve of that nurse sometimes it’s all you can do

Some girl on facebook keeps posting about how she "CANT STAND" seeing kids with binkis. Shes always posting something new that bothers her about other kids and parents. The binki one made me mad though. I usually ignore her post but my child takes a binki. So it made me mad. Even when it shouldn't lol he usually has it for bed time then ends up spitting it out when hes asleep. We take it in public on the diaper bag in case he has melt downs we cant help him get over and long road trips. I dont get why other moms or parents in general have to be so judgmental. Nothing other parents do should bother you that much to make a post about it. I dont judge other parenting because if i could say this loud enough THE SAME PARENTING DOESN'T WORK ON ALL CHILDREN. THEY ARE ALL DIFFERENT AND DIFFERENT THINGS WORK.

I too used to know everything...then I became a mom! 😒

I was a thumb sucker until I was 9yrs old. I always knew I’d give my kids a pacifier because they’re easier to take away than a thumb lol so as soon as I saw my daughter sucking her thumb in the hospital I gave her a pacifier and I’ll do the same with this baby. Also like a lot of people said the added benefit is that it lowers SIDS risk.

I did not know that pacis help reduce sids. Both my older two took a paci. My ds did until just before two and my dd1 still uses hers for naps and bed. My dd2 does not take one, won't. It's weird. Doesn't use her thumb either

Oh man I hope she has a kid so it slaps her back to earth! It’s gonna hurt when she falls off that high horse..😂

Childless people always have the BEST advice!

*Insert sarcasm*

@phoebesmommy, omg so my first never liked a pacifier. My second since the womb always sucked her thumb. When she was born the first thing she did was stick her thumb in her mouth. I made sure to start giving her a pacifier the second she was born but she STILL tried to find her thumb even though she’s almost 3 months old 🤦🏼‍♀️ I hope she doesn’t become a thumb sucker.

Well add me to the bad mom list 🤷🏼‍♀️

Wow just wow 😲

U know what’s crazy? With my second kid I pulled out a paci in the hospital they MADE ME SIGN A WAIVER for her to use a pacifier! I laughed in their faces

Raise your hand if you’re a bad mom 🙌

My son takes one. Most of them time it's just something for him to nook on

people literally blow my god damn mind like wtf hahaha