Anyone else ever feel like a single parent even though their partner is sat next to them?

I literally have to constantky ask him to do stuff. There is zero initiative from him espesially at night. He is always going on about being tired cause he works but has no idea how tired I am. Then he wonders why I get emotional.

I've explained it too him twice and he doesn't change. I'm at my wits end with it and I'm starting to resent my son at times which makes me even sadder cause I love hin dearly.

I don't know what to do any more. I love my partner but he is driving me mad.