Ummm nooooooooooo?

I asked my husband and hes like "Yer thats a big no." Id be sitting him down and telling him how you feel and that it needs to stop.

Omg that's a red flag alert right there.

Next time he is there go over with him

I would be reminding him that he has a woman and a child in this house when he gets back that is his family & requires his time etc. Ain't nobody got time for their man to be spending time with another woman. Put your foot down.. he is yours!! Lol

Sorry but it's red flags if he's still at the neighbor's this late. Call him and if he doesn't pick up, text him that you saw everything through the window and see how quick he answers the phone.

I think your just scared to find out what actually is happening

Um my crazy ass would've been over there already. So much nope!!

Yeah my friend liked me because I was like "one of the guys". We've been dating a bit over a year now.

Red flags ⛳️ ⛳️ ⛳️ ⛳️

Over my cold dead body would my husband be hanging at another woman's house alone at 2am with booze involved. Faaaack no.

If I was in your situation, I would go sneak around her house to hear what they are saying. If I heard anything fishy, I would be kicking them doors down and investigating myself. If I see something fowl then I would go negan on them. ?

Or I would just take binoculars and see if I could spot anything from a distance and then walk across the street and knock on her door.

Nope nope nope don't trust that sweetie You better go over there and get your man. They are both going to keep thinking its okay to do and disrespect you. Have a talk with both of them and let them no its not happening and the messaging has to cut out completely.

Girl if they're not having sex already they will be soon.

I am being pretty naive. I don't think they're having sex, but I think they have another kind of connection. I like her, but I don't really like having company. I don't drink or smoke so I'm the oddball. I can't go over there because I don't want to take my infant out or expose her to smoke.

This is WRONG in so many ways, but I think you know this. It's 2:00 in the morning ask yourself what is going on over there. This is silly and so crazy

Nope nope nope.

And there is alcohol involved?

Oh hell no.

Don't be naive girl.

Follow your intuition, because chances are, it is right

My husband wouldn't even THINK about doing that because he knows that wouldn't even be allowed.

Omg how can you even be wondering what they are or not doing. Go over there to "hang out" with them

That's bizarre. My husband and I used to be really good friends with one of our neighbors. She and I had actually known each other years before my husband and I met but lost touch until we both moved into the same apartment complex. They occasionally hung out when I was not around but I was good enough friends with her to know their relationship was strictly platonic. I would not be ok with some random chick I barely knew though

So... the two of them are just hanging out drinking alone... and you are wondering why he likes to go over there?? I've seen too many episodes of Maury not to know how this ends.

Are there other guys over there or just him? Why can't she be one of the guys at your house with you around?

I couldn't do it that a big NO in my book.

Giiiirrrrrl if you don't go over and "pop" up.....hell no.

NO! Tell him to stay home. I honestly would let her know how you feel aswell.

Naah. Not on my watch. Until she grows a penis, shes not one of the guys.

No way i would go there right now. No way he is spending time at night with some woman.

That is a nope in my book! He is being disrespectful by not listening to how you feel about it.

Oh no girl now in days you can't trust no girl around your man if I where you I'll stop that immediately