LEAVE HIM!!! Every time someone posts something about their man, whether it be a rant, a problem, or seeking advice, I…

I agree

Agreed.

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Agreed, I never complain on here about my OH. He gets on my nerves for sure, but he's a great man, dad and provider. I wouldn't want him complaining about my mood swings lately lol

I dont know, a lot of these posts involve stuff that totally flabbergasts me. I can't believe some of the things that these pregnant women deal with! Maybe I have very high standards but some of this stuff is just atrocious to me and would be an absolute deal breaker. Then again, I also can't understand how some ladies decide to have children with their men that are obviously messed up. So, I dunno.

Where their partners have cheated, hit them or something along those lines I think leave them. But I agree with op too many people give this solution far too easily. It's annoying, especially when you just know they wouldn't take that advice themselves!

I agree with maigan. However, I also agree that divorce shouldn't always be the immediate decision. I've posted "leave him" before and that's been for abusive situations. No one deserves that. Furthermore, i have a hard time supporting women, whether married or not, who continue to enable the behaviors they describe on some of these posts. If you allow it, you promote it. Just my 2 cents. 😕

I wander if a similiar situation was happening to these women who say "leave him" would they leave their partners too? Things like that are always easier said than done and are always handled differently by different people. What happened to trying to work through issues before the big D word Is mentioned?

agreed!! we should be like "get counseling"

I noticed that as well. Drives me nuts. Lol.

Well my partner left his dirty plate on the table. I packed up his sh!t and threw it on the lawn! Momma don't play those games. He's never seeing his daughter again!!!

What a jerk, huh?!

Guilty! When I read about the atrocious things some women are dealing with in their relationships I say dump him. Abuse is a deal breaker for me. Dump him.

I agree. Lol I use a$$ hat all the time ;) such a great word!

I also think in some of the post that ppl are over exaggerating the situation. Not the physical abuse but other ones. There are always 2 sides to every story. Just like I know I can be a complete b*tch to my DH and he with me. If u come off as a b*tch and with an attitude he will with u. If u want respect u have to show it too. It isn't just a one way to goes both ways. It takes 2 to tango.

I DO NOT. Agree with physical, mental, emotional verbal abuse but I also know that if I hit my DH really hard and he was scared for his life he would protect himself. But DH is very gentle and respectful as I show him respect.

Especially when there's children. Divorce/leaving is traumatizing to them so it should always be the last option. Of course the big no no's are an exception.

I agree op. I doubt that most of the women saying leave are in perfect relationships themselves. Of course abuse is the exception but sometimes counseling even helps there.

pp: Divorce is not only traumatic it causes severe anxiety and insecurities in children btw.

I agree with this post. I left my wonderful husband a few years ago over problems that were fixable. He took me back, we worked in our issues and now, we are more in love than ever. Marriage is an adventure, it's not always easy.

@Indiangirl, divorcing my husband was the hardest thing I've ever done in my life! It's like losing them to death. I had to go to counseling for a year because it was so "traumatizing". Our daughter was only 2 at the time and she doesn't remember but if we spilt now, it would just destroy her!

I disagree. Leave his ass!

LEAVE THE BASTARD , him& his non-cleaning , xbox playing , no sex giving , bad breath having , emotionally unavailable ass .

I agree. I feel one way one minute and another the next. I'm in no condition to make life altering decisions about my relationship especially over some of the nonsense I stay mad at for days or weeks at a time. I think I'm representative of most women with husband rants. Leaving is definitely appropriate in abusive situations though.