Baby getting scared Am I wrong? My son got scared when round my dads and he was crying really bad (he rarely crys) it…
Baby getting scared
Am I wrong? My son got scared when round my dads and he was crying really bad (he rarely crys) it was such a horrible cry too, so I went to pick him up from my dad and apparently I'm being over protective and my dad doesn't agree with me picking up my son when he was scared.. Am I in the wrong? Xx
Sherrie O’Sullivan ·
Мама сына-младенца
I thought this, but didn't know if it was just me Oliver has just turned 6 months xx
deleted-user·
Definitely not in the wrong! I'd have taken my lg back aswell x
deleted-user·
I'd of done the same x
Sherrie O’Sullivan ·
Мама сына-младенца
Thanks ladies so glad you all think the same I thought I did the right thing just sick of being judge to be honest xx
Sherrie O’Sullivan ·
Мама сына-младенца
He wasn't scared because of my dad holding him it's because my dad had shouted at my brother beforehand and Oliver got scared because of the shouting. Don't get me wrong if he was whinging i would leave him but that was a proper horrible cry. Xx
Sherrie O’Sullivan ·
Мама сына-младенца
To be honest I know now what I did was the right thing to do. I don't want Oliver feeling like when he's older that he can't come to me when he's scared. I rarely hear that scared cry but it upsets me too so I need the cuddle as well xx
deleted-user·
Occasionally I get told I'm wrong for that too. I think it's old fashioned values creeping in. Leave them and they'll work it out for themselves etc. My HV said to always pick them up when they are crying, as it will make them more independent, as they'll know u are them for them when needed and tbh my lg is pretty good at playing on her own etc so maybe it's working.xx
Sherrie O’Sullivan ·
Мама сына-младенца
I personally don't like the old ways. It is nice to know a lot of people agree with me. Just wish my dad could see that. He still hasn't spoke to me and i just can't get it off my mind even though I know that I'm in the right. I suppose if he's gonna carry on not talking to me it's him that misses out on his daughter and grandson xx