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Eva Schultz
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Starting to freak out about becoming a mom...

Starting to freak out about becoming a mom...

Blah I don't know why but I've started having these feelings about becoming a mom, and I'm really scared.. I have been so anxious and I want the baby to come (40 + 2) and now I'm kinda freaking out.. I'm worried I'm not going to be a good mom, or what if I don't connect to my baby or what if I don't know what to do... I feel bad that I'm having these feelings so I'm just wondering if anyone else had these feelings as well ?

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deleted-user

deleted-user

Everything will be okay. You'll be a great mom, I just know it!

I think we all go through that feeling and it's completely normal. If you ever want to talk, you know where to find me ❤️

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It's very normal hun. I found I got this more having my second baby.but it all comes so natural and of corse there is lots to learn. So take it day by day but the fact you are worried says your going to be a great mum ?. You will feel all sorts of new things ?

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Totally normal, and probably a good sign that you will in fact be a great, caring mommy! It's a lot to digest, don't beat yourself up, you'll do great! ??

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It's normal. I felt similar. It's just your hormones and emotions mixed together. It's been 1 week and 1 day since I had my first and I can assure you, once you hear your baby cry and you hold them, your motherly instincts will kick in. There is no right or wrong way of being a mum. Each mum is unique and as long as you give your child love, your 99% there. All the best with the rest of pregnancy and you will be a perfect mother to your child x

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deleted-user

Ive been having these same worries.

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em.schultz0

Eva Schultz

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Thanks everyone ! It probably is just the hormones and the unexpected

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