Where did anyone call her a bad mom? Or say they were perfect? Talking about how this is dangerous is not bashing

Wow, this is going? OP, you knew this would happen....

At least her stove is clean and off !!

Op , Cute baby and I would have done the same thing ! (:

I swear if yall women are not bashing others about grammar , yall are trying to Tell other women how to parent their own kids . -_-

Better safe than sorry!

@yamip so if it isn't your kid and it isn't your problem why are you still bashing her? just because she stopped to take a picture that makes her a bad parent? it's good to know some parents think their "perfect"

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How sad, hismum that you seem to think it's either take pictures and reinforce or yell like a crazy person.

There is also: immediately remove child and talk to him. Teach him the stove is ouchie and only for mommies and daddies.

There are plenty of ways other than yelling to correct a child.

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I agree with a lot, if not all of these comments.

But I'm going to side with safety first.

Like a pp said, be proactive and not reactive.

A lot of parents that have had horrible things happen to their children, always lament that it only took a second or that it happened so fast.

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My son who is 4 threw a plastic ball in the oven when he was 3. I didn't know it, had no idea he even went in the kitchen. I preheated the oven for dinner that night and the mess and smell were terrible!

That made me make sure to toddler proof the oven. I didn't even know he could open the door ?

*goes off to google knob covers

Oh my

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Just no.

Baby proofing should be more proactive, than reactive. Waiting until he figures out the cabinets to lock them and waiting until he figures out the stove to lock it is dangerous. I know, I know, I should be the cool mom who thinks its funny to take pictures of toddlers in dangerous situations like you all, but I care more about my child's safety than that.

"She took a picture, she isn't encouraging it!" Ummm...wtf do you think the act of taking a picture is doing? Reinforcing that mommy is amused by it...encouraging it. Positive reinforcement leads to continued behavior. Pretty simple.

Lmao! Replicating the movie?!

That Robert Downy Jr meme is flashing in my head. The arms crossed rolling eyes picture.

Toddlers do this s*** . We learn, we change tactics, we move on. But not in this group where dead horses are beat and no one reads the f*** ing comments. ???

he'll be two in November.

it started with the cabinets. once he discovered those, next was the fridge, toilet, and now this. I would have baby proofed a long time ago but our landlord doesn't want us to. at least not the cabinets.

How old is your lo?

I read the comments and my initial thought was some women can really exaggerate things on here. But then I thought of my son who is now 4 and how I have always explained to him how dangerous some things in the home can be and it made me think that maybe you should have had that stove child proofed already. My son never goes near the stove and was taught from early on its dangers.

Maybe you should go through your home and take inventory on what needs child proofing so you do not have anymore potential pics..

Because she took a picture of her LO standing on the stove, she's encouraging this behavior? Really? I swear, some of you guys take one inch & make a football field. ?

Anywho OP, cute pic!

Oh nothing. Don't do anything because I said so. Just thought I'd express my feelings about how scary I find this. Surely you can appreciate that we're not commenting to be rude btches but obviously you thought this was cute and it really in all seriousness is not.

My only input is that this picture has leaked into my game of evil apples with fellow bb ladies lol. That's how much this friggn picture is blowing up lol

Everybody needs to have a snickers

I kind of feel bad for you pp, children expecially toddlers get into things, in fact I should start a thread of craziest things toddlers done, users have claimed kids cut thier own hair, shoved toothbrushes in toilets and so on. I don't expect a first time pregnant mom to understand, I've been through it.

Op took a picture she didn't encourage him to play in it

Toddlers are insane. DS climbed into a chair, slid open a drawer to pull out a hammer in our "junk drawer". I heard DD and DS shrieking and found them wielding and slapping a hammer and spatula together. In the time it took me to swap laundry. I'm losing my mind ladies.

that's the light

I did not LET him do anything. yes, I took a picture and got him down. I already said its not happening again, it's done and happened so what do you prefer I do mommyness?

& I like you shrimps but I could say the same about your choices in men and dating ?

Is the oven on or is it just the light?

Lala did you get a cute picture of it?!

man, I'm so torn I'm not getting any D ?

you're not even worth replying to lol, so next.

I said I would be off this post...but one last thing before I go

Mkrystine

I dont need to stalk on your post to remember it was you the one that posted it a few days ago.. and yes I did feel the need to comment because I came across your post which is open to anyone that wants to comment on it.

Klazaro

You got that right! Im def lacking on the "d" as well but unfortunately Im on bed rest, there is nothing I can do about it, at least once I give birth I can get all the "d" I need and still take care of my baby unlike other people who apparently cant do either or.

? sorry not sorry. It's cool that you think it's fine though. I've been doing parenting all wrong. I'll let them do potentially harmful and dangerous things as long as I'm within arms reach so they learn not to be afraid to explore.

Hope that car stops in time!

I'm not the type who tries to parent other people's kids. However, WTF.

Sha bubble wrap is better ?

Oops nevermind, that would be teaching them to suffocate themselves?

Jeez how did I survive my childhood *scratches head*

Yes, I'm entirely sure that a lack of penis leads to parenting problems. Jeez.

@lala yes the oven window lol

It's safer to just post a picture of your child(ren) in an empty room with nothing around. Just them standing or sitting on a blanket. Lol

*you're

Yamip91 ? your pathetic lol

The irony of that comment pp, you sound like you're the enraged one because you lack the d?

I love it when people stalk your posts lol. my "lack of D" has nothing to do with this. ?

if you would have read the comments I stated a while ago I was going out to get locks. this won't be happening again so no, there really was no reason for you to comment and repeat what others have already stated.

and I'm sure the pp you're talking to was agreeing with you ?

Lnyan

Oh yeahhh I will relax as I wait for him to learn how to turn it on and set the house on fire or even worse get himself on fire...

Anyways not my kid, not my problem.

Apparently her lack of "D" is interfering with her parenting but like I said not my kid and def not my problem.

And off this post I go because I shouldnt have even commented.

Everyone bashing must be a perfect mother ? I swear some of yall needa take chill pills n worry bout cha own damm children

Lawd what a cute picture. ..Being a Sociology major I have to saw Im glad she snapped this picture instead of freaking out and causing a panic. ..Curiosity is part of childs nature and yes as a result sometimes they get hurt however she's in the room oven's off and she is going to get child proof stuff. . Overreacting could hinder the childs nature to naturally explore lol

My brother had two woody dolls and for some reason I soaked one in water and froze him? don't ask me why I have no idea

k "perfect moms" relax, it's harmless since mom literally right in front of him, he's just cooking up a good meal ?

okay. goodnight

I didnt find this funny at all.

Instead of finding the time to be taking pictures you should be getting him off! For god sakes he is standing on glass!

?? so dangerous!

I believe by taking a picture you are letting him know you thought it was funny and cute and guess what? he could keep on doing it...especially when you are not around.

Hope the next post we see from you isnt about asking for prayers because your kid is at the hospital due to an accident with the stove??

relax already ? I already said I was getting locks. it's over, the end.

? ? sometimes my sons want to play with the iron or curling iron. I guess I should let them since I'm just standing right there.

I'm so glad I have a separate oven and stove. It's actually unusually high but it works to keep kids off it!! Poor woody.

My brother climbed on the oven door as a child and the oven fell on him. Once it started tipping it would be difficult to stop the momentum of it. Please look into getting a lock for the door. And stopping to take a picture makes it seem like a fun thing for a kid. Losing you s*** and telling them no reinforces that the oven is nothing to play around.

Taking a picture reinforces the fact that it was fun or cute. Exactly the opposite of what you want regarding ovens. You may child proof now, but unless you never go into a different house (where they may not have child proofed), you still don't want him to think it's fun or cute to play in an oven.

When my DS was one, we moved from an apartment with electric to a townhouse with gas. He turned the knob without me knowing and my husband came home and immediately smelled it. I couldn't smell it because I was in the house I guess??

It FREAKED me out so I went and bought those covers and got the detectors for the wall! The covers are a pain though, when they are open, they flip down. I've knocked off so many tops and broken them. ? Always have some backups!

I always just pulled the knobs off my stove when the boys were little and kept them in a drawer for when I cooked.

Good luck! Always a fun stage, when they start discovering the big appliances.

btw turtles, don't worry he didn't fall through the glass lol ?

no he didn't even try to turn it on thank god. but yup. I was doing dishes, turn around and woody is the oven. getting ready to head to Walmart now. I was hoping he wouldn't discover the oven either but toddlers, what can you do

I hate the stoves like this. Mine is just like this. My daughter always tries to turn the knobs on. She hasn't tried opening the doors yet :/

Woody is tanning

Drama queens

They sell knob covers at baby's r us.

The other day my niece put her toy cupcake set in the oven to "cook" she left them in there and that night my SIL preheated the oven. What a mess...and scary!

I'm pretty sure her son is safe I'm a normal mom I would have snapped a pic to

They will probably be umpteen people comment on this freaking out. Before they read the comments saying she's gonna child proof it and it was the first time.

The irony.

Remember at the end of Toy Story when Sid threw Woody on the grill?!

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Hope he does not turn that on.

She said it was the first time it happened. Im sure she will know to lock it now

Smh.

Your son is standing on glass and you find the time to take a picture?

going out to get one now ☺️

Uh oh time to get a child lock!

But why... so dangerous on sooo many levels....

I hate when the knobs are in the front instead of top. Gives me such anxiety. ?

I think they make covers for those.

wellp I'm not sticking around for the drama lol have at it ladies

Dear lord. That's all I'm going to say.

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yup. first time figuring out how to open the stove and he put his toy in there

Is he standing in the stove door ???