Advice / vent
Okay ladies sorry this is so long but I need advice about my living situation. We are renting my dads old house from him but my brother and his girlfriend are also living here. The house they were renting got foreclosed last year so they moved in. It was supposed to be temporary and they are still here. Anyways I can't take it anymore. My brothers girlfriend is stuck up and has the worst attitude. You can't say anything to her without her getting defensive and a huge attitude. When I was 38 weeks pregnant she tried fighting me. Full on tried attacking me and my brother had to stop her. I tried being civil after that because I don't want my son in a hostile environment. Anyways we split the electric. A few weeks ago she made her payment and called the bank and disputed the charge so she got her money back!! So my electric account got back charged what she disputed and they gave me a fee. WHO does stuff like that? Then the other day their dog was whining in front of my door early in the morning LOUD so I asked her to please take him so I could get some sleep. She immediately got an attitude and told me no. Wtf?! Yesterday her and her friend were smoking weed INSIDE THE HOUSE! Are you absolutely kidding me??? She crossed the line and I am done. Beyond done. I have a 2 month old and she clearly has no kind of respect for me or him. So I guess I need to move out. They've been saying they are moving out since she tried fighting me which was 3 months ago. I don't have time to wait around and live with somebody like this any longer. The only thing that sucks is we have spent a lot of time and money on the baby's room because we totally redid the whole thing. Also we have 3 dogs. I know I'm not gonna find a house to rent with 3 big dogs especially one being a pitbull. The advantage of this house is we have 5 acres of land with a fenced yard so the dogs have plenty of room. I don't think I will ever find somewhere that's okay with them especially with a fenced yard. But I don't think I can stay here much longer. My dogs are like children to me and it breaks my heart to even think of letting them go and I'm not the type of person to ever get rid of an animal but I'm honestly at the point where idk what to do anymore. But I can't live here with her much longer. I'm over the disrespect and hostility. It's making me very unhappy as a person overall. What do y'all think?
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@peasfairy yes and all he says is that they're trying to move out soon. Honestly pissed off he didn't make her leave when she tried fighting me. I think he's scared of upsetting my brother. It's bs tho.
@mrsbowers yeah that's what I should have done. I should have called them when she tried attacking me two times in the same day at 38 weeks pregnant. Next time anything happens again I'm calling them without thinking twice. I told my brother it's not him but she can't keep doing stuff like this and he can't keep defending her just because she's his girlfriend. Wrong is wrong.
Idk im more b**** y than most but i would be calling law enforcement telling them she is smoking weed under YOUR roof with YOUR child in there. Id have her ass arrested. Trust me i know your pain and although your brother is family sometimes you have to put your foot down. Serve a 30 day notice to her. Tell your brother he is welcome to stay but she isnt. And if he goes thats on him not you.
@emc3 yes it's ridiculous. It's getting to the point where it's making me unhappy and I don't want bad vibes around my baby!
@emc3 it's horrible. She doesn't help clean the house or anything. Doesn't sweep/ mop EVER. I do everything and I have a baby! I talked to both. My brother just says he's saving to get out of here but I've been hearing that since she tried attacking me and my dad just tells me the same thing. That they'll be out. But I wish he would make them leave because the way she acts is unacceptable. Soooo over it.
Not in your place but my mom is the same and makes excuses. I've recently cut her off because she lets horrible things happen. If I were you I would of called the cops. Also with your dad not worrying about your feelings I'd move and cut him off for a while since he's so worried about your brothers feeling