seriously woman... My mil expects all holidays to be flip flopped between her and my family. Every other thanksgiving we…
seriously woman...
My mil expects all holidays to be flip flopped between her and my family. Every other thanksgiving we are to go to them, every other Christmas, 4th of July, easter, etc.
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No, I would go see your neice expecially if you don't see her often.
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Tell her to grow up ?
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Nope. Not wrong at all. We visit both sides on or around the holiday. Like christmas eve is my side of the family and christmas day is my husbands side, my family does thanksgiving lunch and his does dinner so it always works out for us
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You can spend your holidays with whoever you want. It's nice to do every other holiday but since it's your nieces birthday it's a little different. Could SHE maybe accommodate you guys and do thanksgiving a day early at her house or something? It's not like the day matters, it's about family and food lol
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Oh no don't start talking about this! I don't even want to think about juggling holidays with my family and the in laws yet :(
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Hubby's fam always eats dinner early. My fam always eats dinner late. So every holiday, we go to his fam first, then mine. Works for us!
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My in-laws live 1300 miles away. We fly out every other Christmas. My family usually comes here for holidays and if the in-laws come to town they obviously do too.
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Most of SO's family lives out of town, and the few that live here we don't like, so we just skip em. I usually spend my holidays with just SO and SS, but stop in with my parents for some of our old traditions. Do what makes you and yours happy!