Let's talk about.... Sex... almost 4 wks pp and my hormones are raging... I know I'm supposed to wait 6 wks but geez…

Well I didn't wait. I gave in and to be honest I felt dirty afterwards. Like what did I do dirty feeling. With fear of getting pregnant I told my husband to pull out. Lol it felt like a one night stand. I curled up on my pillow afterwords lol. Now he wants it constantly lol

With my csection from my first, We tried at about 4 wks PP....never again. Lol it felt like a knife was digging inside of me!

With my second, I had vaginal birth, bleeding stopped after 3 weeks and we were back at it like some dogs in heat ?? sorry if that's tmi.

With this one due for induction next week, I'm praying she and my body cooperates for me to have vaginal again because I'm soooooooo ready for normal sex again. And my guy looks so yummy all the time but with a swollen vag..it's just not pleasant lol.

I caved too ?

I caved after about a week and a half this time... couldn't help myself! My husband just looked so tasty! Oops! ??‍♀️

Already caved in and done it 2 weeks and 3 days..

I’m now 3 weeks pp and I was in the mood after week one?.. we have always had an active life.. I Find it very hard not to jump him. But I have to wait the whole 6 weeks because of the stitches☹️.. I hope not longer. That would be a nightmare?..

I didn’t tear this time so I doubt we’ll be waiting long. I don’t really have pain other than just usual soreness.

I’m only 2 days pp so obviously not yet lol but if my bleeding slows, I doubt we’ll be waiting past two weeks.

I’m 2 1/2 weeks postpartum and ready to get it onn. My bleeding is basically done, I’ll go two days with nothing and then the smallest spot of something. I didn’t tear but have 2 stitches from blowing a vein.

Hubby is the one who is nervous because he doesn’t want to get pregnant again ?

4 weeks pp. It's not that I'm craving sex or anything but more the intimacy with my honey. I miss THAT more than anything since my LO takes up so much of my time

Blessedwife 6 months WOW, I would lose my mind in 6 months. If DH wasn't sleeping next to me, breathing the same air as me in our house, I could make it 6 months.

Wow! You ladies impress me! This is our third and hubby knows not to even ask until around 6 MONTHS postpartum. ?

Ugh no way. I want to just cause it's been so long since we've had good non pregnant normal sex but I'll 3 weeks postpartum and things are still feeling bad down there. Where the stitches were still gets really sore sometimes and things are still achey. I still can't wipe normal. I'll probably end up not having sex til way after 6 weeks.

I'm always late. I always wait especially with this being my first c-section. Still bleeding on and off too. Like everyone said trying to do others things at least cuddling or kissing just helps it's much needed right now to get use through this days.

Lol

I always have desire very early on, like, within days but have had desire same day as giving birth, which I know is emotionally triggered.

Anyways, I'm 9 days pp. I definitely have sexual desire, but of course I'm still bleeding and not ready for intercourse.

I still want to keep him satisfied though. If you aren't ready for intercourse, why not masturbate together? Kissing, touching, and getting off manually, either simultaneously or taking turns. I feel like it will help recovery, since our uteruses need to shrink back down and each orgasm is a nice strong contraction.

I intend to wait at least several days, but likely a week or so, after I stop bleeding, and until I am ready to go further, I feel like us engaging together in non-penatrative ways will keep us both satisfied, keep us close, help me heal, and also strengthen my pelvic floor.

So, if your drive is really strong but you need to wait, that should help.

@scorr seeing how my SO is handling fatherhood makes me ALMOST okay if I end up in the June 2018 group ??

I'm 1 week pp and want to jump SOs bones ????? not being pregnant I feel so much like my old self (sexually) again. But I'm definitely waiting the 6 weeks because I tore and got stitches at the top of my lady bits ? OUCH

Doesn't mean you can't do other stuff tho ? LOL

2 weeks pp on Monday and I'm ready to jump him! But I'm gonna wait til I go see my doctor for my 6 weeks check up, just in case,since I dont want to get pregnant so soon.

I didn't know the 6week rule. We haven't waited. LB now 4weeks old. Once I felt comfortable down there & bleeding had stopped I just went for it. Used protection of course. We don't want baby number 2 just yet ?

All these comments are funny especially us being little vampires ? overall I think it would hurt if I'm still bleeding, maybe burn sting idk. ??‍♀️

I got cleared two days ago ?? ITS ONNNNN.

Thank God I got my tubes tied... we'd all be seeing each other in 9 months ?

I’m pretty sure I’m going to pump up extra milk and little man will go see Gigi for a few hours the day I get cleared lol ? about 2 and a half weeks left and it needs to hurry!!!

We going to be like damn vampires on our men in a few weeks ?

Monday will be 2wks.. I want to try... I gave my husband a big hug before he went to work yesterday. He was like you gotta go wayyyy over there ?, lol... He's trying to wait until I get my tubes removed.

TNmama thanks I thought so.

Don't sex while spotting ladies, even though it may be tempting. Make sure you've stopped bleeding completely. Better safe than sorry.

ehutch, yeah, if there is still bleeding it means the wound inside the uterus from the placenta is healing.

I’m two weeks Pp- has not tearing and easy labor. I’ve been ready since we got home. ?? Im the horny one in the relationship. Lol. I don’t think I can last another 4 weeks.

I'm already 3 weeks postpartum and ready to have my normal sex back ?

My poor husband...he is totally ready and I am not at all. Lol. I'm only 2 weeks pp though. I feel like I'm ready to be "normal" again, but I don't feel ready for sex yet. We usually do around 4 weeks pp though, I don't think I've ever wait until 6.

I'd love to know that though, is it ok to have sex before 6 weeks? Even though we've done it before I've always felt like it was unsafe or like I'd get in trouble, lol.

If you're still bleeding does that mean you can get an infection if you have sex? That's what I was told by my doctor after my first child.

I'm barely bleeding and my husband is the same way with my monthly but it feels like it's been forever!!

Ugh ? me too almost 3wks PP and I'm BACKKKKKK?. My poor husband is so humble about intimacy his not even pressuring, it's meee. He's also one of those that stays off limits until I'm completely done with my monthly. Since I'm still bleeding from PP he won't ...I guess I wouldn't let him either it would be messy.

Lol

I'm 3 weeks pp Monday and I'm losing my mind. Every time DH gets next to me I want to rip his clothes off. He's no help because he's been talking about sex since the day after I had our daughter. Just seeing me not pregnant excited him. I see my doctor at 4 weeks pp instead of 6 weeks which I did with my other 3. I'm still lightly bleeding and plan on seeing my doc before DH and I go at it. I'm so scared to get pregnant again, I don't trust condoms or birth control, I want my tubes removed, tied, burned or donated to science whatever the doctor will do to me that's covered under my insurance and legal. That's how bad I don't want to be pregnant ever again lol.

? I’m dying at 9 days postpartum. I’m not sore down there, it’s the bleeding that’s stopping me. Well that and don’t want to risk infection.

Brenda you better give your husband a bday delight of something lol

I had a csection as well... I'm not going to lie I let him dip an inch ?. my last csection I was cleared at 4wks as well. We've always been extremely active and all over each other... I was having sex up until my scheduled csection I'm talking the night before. He was home for 2wks with us from work then he went back and was sent outta town for a damn week. He comes home tonight I'm ready to jump his bones. Only thing stopping me is thinking my luck I would be joining the June 2018 Group lmao

I’m about 3.5 weeks out and I’m dying for intimacy!!! But I had a csection and it’s especially important I wait! Plus I’ve checked and my cervix is still really low and soft and slightly open so looks like it’s a definite no ?

My dr actually cleared me for 4 weeks and i had to give in my hubby had been dry since august and he took it like a champ

Ugh ? I’m still sore from where I tore... think I need to wait until my 6w appt so that I have peace of mind that at least everything is healed... though mentally I’m ready!

Omgoodness. I'm almost 4 weeks pp and not even thinking about it. My husband started talking about it yesterday and I told him we aren't even at the talking about it stage! Maybe it's because it's my first but recovery seems to be taking so long. Not too mention I'm exhausted and don't feel particularly sexy. I wouldn't be surprised if I'm more than 2 months pp before we "do the deed". Still freaks me out thinking of something going in there after pushing something so big out. Ouch!

I had sex last time around 4 weeks. Probably will this time too because hubby can’t keep his hands off lol

I'll be 4 weeks pp tomorrow. .I'm ready too