Are You KIDDING Me?!?
April 7 was the one year anniversary of my last mc. It was my 3rd and we found out I have a uterine septum. After months of fighting with my medical coverage company to pay for surgery to fix it, I developed kidney stones. That took 2 months to get over then we had to pay those medical bills off. I FINALLY have my surgery scheduled for tomorrow! My boobs have been a little sore but I thought it was just af coming. I tested this morning just for the heck of it...BFP! What the heck! We were so careful all year to not get pregnant until the surgery! I'm so torn between feeling happy, excited, terrified, frustrated, and a little angry that I couldn't have done the surgery right after diagnosis! I don't know what to do but they will do a blood test tomorrow before the surgery so maybe I will just wait to freak out. Ugh!
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Thanks. Started spotting brown this morning so maybe I can avoid another d&c. Please pray that everything passes quickly and completely.
No miracle for us today. No growth and still no hb. Scheduling a d&c for hopefully next week. Thanks for the prayers ladies. I have another angel waiting for me in Heaven.
So I go in tomorrow for a follow up u/s. I'm so anxious. I want to hope that maybe it was a mistake, but I want to be prepared for the worst too. I still used the Doppler this week and it started reading higher yesterday like it was picking up the baby's hb but I don't know for sure. I don't really feel pregnant but I always had mild symptoms anyway. Still no cramping or bleeding at all. I just don't know what to think or feel.
Yeah the waiting would be hard love!!! Well then u have experienced both so u will know exactly what is better for u!!well my fx for u hun that they will be able to give u good news Friday....I know its hard to have a positive out look still but I really really hope u can get amazing news hun!!!
Yeah, I have had 2 natural mc and one d&c with my mmc. I could handle the natural if I knew when it was going to start. That's the hardest part fir me, the waiting and not knowing.
Yeah that's a tough one hun....after they tell u what's going on don't be afraid to tell them u need time to make up Ur mind....talk with Ur hubby and see what would be the easiest on u both but ultimately you need to make the decision that's best for you since u and Ur body will be going thru it sweetie.....from experience tho I will tell u...I went thru a natural mc but it was hard to have it go on for so long...I bleed for 8 weeks straight and every time I went to the bathroom I would cry...the blood was an instant reminder of our lose.....I didn't feel like I could truly grieve untill I stopped bleeding!!! Remember I'm here for u!!
I go back Friday for a follow up u/s just to be sure. I don't know what I will want to do from there. I have no cramping or any spotting at all so this could drag on for weeks unless I just do the d&c.
Well 10 days ago I measured 7w4d with hb at 150. Today baby only measured 7w6d and dr couldn't find any hb.
Well, today is a sad day. Dr couldn't find a heartbeat and baby only grew two days since last Wed. Going back in a week to be sure then making decisions to mc naturally or have a d&c. Thanks for the prayers. H&H 9 months to you all.
Aw thanks! I'm 8w4d today. Hoping the Friday shows growth and progress since last week. I still feel pregnant, but my symptoms are so mild. I don't know whether to feel lucky or worried! Haha
Yeah I completely understand that...I know I will be worried the whole time if I get preggo again!!! Try to stay positive sweetie....everything looks great so far...how far along are u know???....here's a little what I'm waiting for lol ill be O around the 22 and starting the bd on the 18th so I can't wait to find out if ill be joining u...then we can help each other thru our worrie...but even if I don't get my bfp this time...ill still be here for u sweetie....and don't ever think u can't express Ur feelings around me cuz I'm very open minded!!! Fx for all to come!!!
Yeah I got teary for sure. It's just such a relief every time I see/hear lo bc I feel like I never know if this will end with my baby in my arms or in Heaven.
Hey everyone, thanks for checking up on me. So far so good! I saw lo and heard the hb last Wednesday. I go back this Fri to check my progress. Hopefully my re will then release me to my regular midwife. Been doing progesterone supplements and heparin injections for just over 4 weeks. My tummy is bruised and sore and I'm running out of places to do the shots! Other than that, I'm feeling good and symptoms are pretty mild.
I had a very similar thing happen to me. After trying for months after miscarrying we gave up and found out I had two hernias that we're giving me problems. My surgeon called me the day before my surgery saying my bloodwork came back positive. It was hard because I thought I would just miscarry again and then have to deal with the surgery later. Im now 24 weeks with my healthy little boy. I did end up needing the surgery in the beginning of my second trimester but it all worked out. I hope things work out for you too. It's a bumpy road sometimes!
Hcg was 78 on Monday and 167 yesterday so that's a good start! Now to wait wait wait a month for my first sono at 8 weeks. I hate that that is the first available appt since I'm so high risk and have mc'd 3 times already.
I'm def pregnant. HcG is 78, progesterone is 22.9, and estrogen is 140. Testing hcg again Wednesday and starting lovenox injections and prometrium tomorrow. Let's pray this one sticks!
So I misunderstood and I'm not going to the surgery center tomorrow. I guess he wants me to call his office and go there for a blood test. Either way, it's an hour drive. I'm so conflicted. I feel so upset but then I feel guilty for not being happy and excited. My mom is devastated and terrified. We can't keep this a secret bc our friends know I was having surgery. Now we will have to tell them why it was cancelled.
Just talked to my dr and I'm still going in to the surgery center tomorrow but they will do a blood test. He said it will prob be canceled if I had two BFP's today. He also said I may mc or may not and to not get excited until 12 weeks. I know it's a long shot, but maybe this baby will stick.
I just tested again, another BFP. I'm def pregnant. I can't believe it! Please be praying that this baby implants far away from the septum, or that if this baby won't make it that I mc quickly. Also pray for wisdom for my drs bc I have no idea if they will still be able to do the surgery, but I doubt it. Oh man, this is so nuts!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
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I ended up having a complete mc on June 4th and got the all clear yesterday that hcg is back to 0. My surgery is now scheduled for August 22nd. Now I'm just waiting for af to show. Thanks for checking up on me!