Need opinions! Plz help!!
My best friend of 20 years betrayed me a few years back. She got drunk and slept with my ex (we were together at the time). She didn't admit to it neither did he but a mutual friend saw them and told me. They both denied it. But my gut told me they did and the mutual friend had no reason to lie plus my bff did avoid me for a while afterwards - out of guilt so I know they did.
See I would go. Do u ever think about why or anything about that part of the past? U know I have the upper hand I'd then walk away and bury the rest of what's she's said and what's happened.
If she never apologize to you and she had the chance...I will no come back that kind of "friendship". I will tell her let it go and follow your own way.
No way she don't deserve any of your time.. no matter what she says your friendship will never be the same again. Forget friendship it will just bring back bad memories for you. What's done is done leave it as that.
Least it's done now. X I think you did the right thing, it'd just churned up those horrible feelings again if you had to listen to what happened etc x
Nicola FlanaganМама сына (1 год)
Yeah she did. She said she understood and that she's glad I'm putting me first. She also said she's glad that I'm happy and that I deserve to be happy.
Nicola FlanaganМама сына (1 год)
Listen to your gut though ladies. They BOTH denied it. The mutual friend was made out to be a liar because she was 'bitter' and 'jealous'. I wanted to believe them (because they were both important to me) but I listened to my gut instead and cut them out and I was RIGHT. Always follow your gut! I see stories like this too often on here. If you know something is wrong, it is!
Good for you! I wouldn't either! if it was too apologise it's too little too late. It would have purely been for her own conscience and piece of mind she obviously thinks about it a lot knowing how awful she was and good so she should! X
Nicola FlanaganМама сына (1 год)
I have decided that I have been doing so well these last few years without her, getting in touch with old friends and making new ones (I use to dedicate most of my time to her). I love my life as it is and don't want to change it. I don't have room for her in my life and don't want to reconnect. I would only meet up with her for her to finally admit it to my face but what would that really achieve? I did reply to her and told her I have made my peace with everything and that I've been happy without her and don't want to reconnect. Maybe it's a bit harsh but she is a few years too late and she let my manipulative ex try to pull the wool over my eyes, that hurt too. I'm not stupid. I wasn't respected. And that to me is always a deal breaker for any kind of relationship.
Part of me would want to go just to get closure on that chapter on my life. I would probably ask her what happened, why she didn't think I was worth an apology at the time, then get up and leave. It's hard though because why now? I would think her a coward and I cant stand cowards! I also would wonder if she really wanted to make amends or if she was just trying to make herself feel better. Why anyone would throw a friendship away and betray someone like this is beyond me. Really sorry she did that to you. I think only you can know if you think it's worth it to you to go xx
Noooooooo way would I go✋
For me if someone had betrayed me like that then I would not want to hear what they have to say or even give them my time specially 3 years down the line I would tell her to f*** off! Ha x
No way! It happened to me many years ago. She would probably only play it down and make out that it was a huge mistake. I'm afraid that if she was a good friend she wouldn't have done it in the first place. Absolutely disgusting behaviour. You're better off without this type of person in your life Xx
Nicola FlanaganМама сына (1 год)
I don't want to be friends with her again. That won't happen. I'm torn because for some bizarre reason I want to hear her out but don't know why I want to hear her out and I'm not sure if I really want to either :-/ so confused. I had made my peace with it. Now she's contacted, 3 yrs have passed.. We were friends for so long... I just don't know...Thanks for your input guys. I'm leaning towards no at the min! Thanks for making me see sense!
I dunno I'm still really good friends with a girl who my ex cheated with. This was at college though and not exactly a serious relationship so it wasn't the end of the world. Decided not to fall out with her in the end though because the relationship started when he had a go already and was also seeing someone else too so decided if was my own stupid fault listening to him haha
I never go back to friends who betrayed me. Made a mistake once and never again!!
If you interested in general "life" then just ask her by text but I wouldn't meet in person
It's like with ex, they were ex for a reason:))
did she delete or block me ?
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Im so glad u said this I was about to comment lmaooooo
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