Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though What should i do i am very confused Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.
Have any of you ladies tried the fruit roll up on your s/o? My friends keep telling me about it but I haven't done it I kinda feel lame oh well 😭😂😭😭😭😭!!!!
done having kids For those of you who are done having kids, did you just like know or what? We have two kids. Ds is going to be 4 on the 30th and I just had dd Feb 6th. My fiance says he doesn't want anymore. As of now, I don't feel like I want anymore either but I honestly don't know. I've always wanted three kids. We are still young (I'm 21, and he's 22) I'm no where near even thinking about having another at the moment. I really wanna get settled in life with good income and a nice home before having anymore if we do. So really, my question is, how do you know you're just done having kids?
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What does he do? He's 18 months. It's probably normal behavior.
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I would imagine he is acting just like any other 1 1/2 year old.
What specifically is his "bad" behavior?
Bolas Azules ·
Dd was so relaxed she enjoyed going with everyone and playing with anyone.
Ds doesn't like anyone touching him has severe separation anxiety hates the word no. Is a screamer like the shrieking ear popping screams.
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Sounds like my one year old. It'll pass eventually.
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Completely normal.
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He'll mellow out in the next few months and then when he hits 3 1/2 or 4 it gets worse. ?
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He isn't a pain. You got lucky the first go around and got a laid back baby. Sorry your son is the polar opposite, but that's just him. I'm sure it's a phase he'll outgrow. I have 2 difficult kids out of my 4. It just is what it is
Bolas Azules ·
It's mentally exhausting. I love my kids but geez I didn't ever expect having kids was this hard.
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I could have written this post myself. My first son was very laid back easygoing. He was just such an easy baby. My second was always a bit more difficult. He's very much so a mommas boy. Doesn't really like anyone holding him but myself or my husband. He's just always been this way. And 18mths is a tough age. It was for me the start of the "terrible 2's". Don't worry it will pass in time. U just have to accept that that's how he is. Just try to stay calm and enjoy your visit the best u can. The more u stress out the more he will stress or act out
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Just think. He's a handful now. But come teenage years, he will be the saint. And you'll be at wits end with your daughter. Welcome to bring the mother of a strong willed boy. They keep us busy for the first 4 years, then they become our best friends.
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Dude I totally feel you. My girls are my world but my first is easy, she's a little turd somedays but most of the time she's excellent then my youngest ? she is a handful, she's loud, constantly into something, she climbs and puts anything that will fit, in her mouth. Somedays I get frustrated and I wonder why she can't be the happy, calm baby that my first was but I realize she is just that way, she's a handful, I adore her and she's hilarious. I wouldn't change her for the world ❤️ it'll be ok, it's perfectly fine to be frustrated.
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I feel the exact same way so I can definitely relate. I have a very strong willed 2 year old that makes it very hard to go places with.
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It's definitely exhausting when you wanna relax but you're worried about being an inconvenience because you spend your time keeping a young toddler happy. It will pass. We brought my daughter to the Casino around that age. She has a blast. They're so much to look
At and she just wondered about. When she had enough and didn't want to be held, we would plop her on the stroller with a stuffed animal or her baby tablet. Technology has its uses lol. I know it's hard to join in when you have anxiety that your child isn't gonna be having a good time and you're worried them being upset with ruins other people's fun. Just please make sure you don't let that feeling stop you from doing everything. It's okay to pick and choose but make sure you're still doing some things you want to do. I became a hermit mama for a while and I feel so much better now that I'm taking chances and just kinda going with the flow when my daughter has a meltdown.
Bolas Azules ·
@skate
I have so much anxiety. I am such a hermit mom. Ds Is just too much for me sometimes. I feel like an inadequate mother at times because I can't Handle it. It's exhausting to me and I feel like I'm just a burden with him. Dd is loved by everyone and anyone. But ds everyone tries to kind of stay away from him to just avoid a meltdown.
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If he is to the point others avoid him, then it might be time to address these issues with his dr. He might have something else going on. It won't hurt anything to get him evaluated.