Wrong response!
Yet another of my friends has announced she's pg. She got her bfp after her first cycle off bc. Am happy for her but so jealous. 18 months ttc#1 and not a sniff of a BFP.
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Thank you islanlady.
Sorry to hear that the witch showed for you ? Am on cd4 now so also have a long wait til the next dreaded 2ww. Oh what life would be like without regulated bd and 2ww's!
Wish I was due that soon! Af has only just finished, so due at the start of May. Think it's gonna be a long month!!
Aah that was really sweet of him! I know they can be sweet sometimes. It's just a shame that men aren't as supportive or as good at the understanding/consoling, as us girls are!!
@wantababyplease thanx for the tip and for the hope about af I'm really crossing everything (well except my legs) lol.
lol@kim that's funny.
yea he's like your really addicted once he told me i should stop reading the forums that it's not helping i was like yea it's like you with for forums, he goes on training,boxing forums etc i'm in training lol...
He's actually been a good sport especially when i brought out the pre seed and soft cups he kinda looked at me and said ok with a funny face of course. there was a night where i actually wasn't thinking about he came to me and put his hand out and said" will you make a baby with me" i almost cried. Men they have their moments...
That's why I keep my PP obsession secret from dh! He always asks what I'm doing on my phone but I just pretend I'm on facebook!
They just don't get how important the things that we do are. They think it'll just happen (pretty much just what I thought 18months ago when we first started ttc)! Don't think they realise that there's literally 2-3 days max per month, when bd matters, either!! Think they think it can happen at any time in the month. We wish!!
There's still hope for you this month. You know what they say ... you're not out till AF shows!
if i say anything nowadays he just says it'll happen and if it doesn't we can adopt. that's not the point. like today i was writing down all my bbt, bd etc on paper so i don't have to keep going back and forth on my phone sometimes its easier nicer to just see and he came in and was like what are you doing and told him and he just kinda sighed a lil then i'm on the computer found another free site and was logging it on there and he's like what are you doing now and then he saw and just left the room. BBT dropped today i think i'm out af due 4/10. hope she doesn't show FX
Thank you so much for all your replies. It's so reassuring that I can come on here and stress and you'll know exactly how I feel. Infact reading your replies has made me feel better already.
I know that dh is just trying to be supportive in his own way but they just don't get it eh?!!
He keeps asking me what's wrong and I'm just trying to pretend that everything's fine.
Let's hope that one day soon we'll all be able to announce some lovely news to our family and friends and receive all the lovely congratulations that come with it. GL to us all ?
I feel your pain we've been trying a long time and I can sympathize. Your husband sounds like me though lol. Every month I tell my husband so what if it doesn't happen(I've wanted a baby for years) our life is amazing. I tell him look at our amazing home, our picture perfect marriage, and all the places we've been! It's my coping mechanism it's what I have to tell myself so I don't fall apart. He maybe trying to help and he may be just as upset as you are. GL!
I totally feel you! I know 16 people expecting in 2012 and 3 have already given birth. Few of them got it first month trying. One of them is my sis-in-law. She got it first month dumping contraception. When I see friends and family congratulate her on Facebook my heart is just sinking! I thought... I will never get this!
Most of the time I don't tell DH how disappointed and sad I am when af comes or another pregnancy announcement. I know DH wants a child badly like me too but he is not as emotional as I do. And to avoid unnecessary disagreement, I would rather just keep it to myself. DH thought I am impatient (we been trying for 11 months for #1) and in general he has more patience than I do, so I don't blame him. He knows I am disappointed but he chose to not saying a thing than saying something that'd possibly hurt me.
Men don't like to show pain, I'm sure he's trying to say something to make you feel better. He totally said the wrong thing, I agree lol. My husband says "oh don't worry it'll happen" all the time and it pisses me off. But I remember that sometimes, they say it to assure themselves too.
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
Has anyone else thought of this nonsense with her being weird, not having consistent information etc. as seeming a whole lot like the beginning of Glee with the fake pregnancy?!
i know huh wantababy so crazy what we do