The word "hubby". ?

I think porn is disgusting and I can't stand nudity in movies/tv shows. I think if a man respects you and wants to be with you he'll refrain from things like GoT and Shameless and movies that show naked women since he should only be seeing you naked. ??‍♀️

It's going to be super satisfying to see all the hair waxed off my who-ha after an entire pregnancy of growing it out.. ??

Sab, how is child support robbery, it takes two to tango well from what I know about making babies, so why does the guy get off Scott free when he helped make that child? You can't just go around wipping your ding dong out, making babies and act like you won't have to help in any sort of way! Lol

Most abbreviations p*** me off.

I think fake/really long nails look super tacky.

I have way more but my mind just went blank. I've been reading every single comment on here over the past hour and a half or so. No wonder I cant think straight right now! ?

Wit and sarcasm aren't cool? Daaang... that's a boring life.

OH, it may not be an unpopular opinion here, but it is when you go to look at wedding stuff (another post reminded me of this). I think the burlap/rustic/old stuff wedding trend is ugly. Especially when you then pair it with lace. I understand that trends happen with weddings, but why wouldn't you aim for a more timeless approach?

Naked cakes, old barn door backdrops, burlap everything, mason jars and rusty buckets don't look pretty. I seriously do not get it.

Haha I can't believe this was still going. I'm over here dealing with my crazy mil who is in town. Pray for me guys. One day down. Seven more to go ?

If I get arrested I'll have dh come update y'all. Hahaa

Sag- changing your comment doesn't change what you said. ?? nice tryyyyy

Changed it to dumb ?

Ooh girl, BB never forgets ?

So I did make a unpopular opinion post before... I was bored and I needed a rise in my blood pressure. I love and hate these things. Pretty entertaining though

@waffle,why would you assume that? I don't use the r word in front of anyone. I'm really wondering what made you jump to that conclusion.

I say fed is best all day long ??

I failed at breastfeeding my son but plan to do my best to breastfeed this baby, I would certainly prefer it. But if it comes down to my baby starving or eating formula, imma go with formula because fed is best ?

Saying the R word kinda just makes your whole comment invalid.

Haha one thing we can all agree on around here is that the R word isn't a nice word!

And oh yea no we are not mean on here today! Mean was about 3 years ago!

People that claim to be organic-gluten free- non-GMO--blah blah but still consume alcohol. Isn't that just as toxic to your body?

Why is it wrong to say Black Lives Matter, but okay to say Blue Lives Matter?

Going to work is HARDER than being a SAHM when you have a career. I've done both.

Layering your face with makeup. Idc if it's your hobby, it's too much.

Child support shouldn't exist? Interesting.

So a non custodial parent shouldn't be legally bound to financially contribute to the upbringing of the child? The custodial parent should shoulder all the costs? Nah. I didn't make a child by myself, I'm not shouldering the finances of taking care of her by myself.

When you talk about word shaming in the same paragraph that you called people retarded and stupid in. I question if you even understand what word -- word shaming means. ???

"Retard or retarted" shouldn't be used as a form of calling someone stupid ?

When people want to call names like calling someone a retard. I think that makes them sound unintelligent and the person they're calling a retard probably has more sense than they do.

I'm confused. I don't want what's best for my baby? ?

Does that apply to any feeding? Like, if someone feeds their kids mcdonalds, do they not want what's best for their baby too?

Oooo @sab the "R" word isn't a very nice word to use!

I hate it when people think the second amendment is about hunting for food, recreational gun use, etc. Have you read the constitution? It's to protect ourselves from a tyrannical government.

I am also not a fan of repeating consonants to make a word longer, like ttttttthis. How would I say that? If you're going to repeat letters, repeat the vowels so I can say it in my head like thiiiiiiiiis.

I hate how people think I am uneducated for not vaccinating. They think I am afraid of autism. It it's against my beliefs to put unclean animal in your body plain and simple. I homeschool and I take measures to insure cleanliness when we are in public. We are healthy people that are building our own immune systems.

Oooh boy

It is totally cool to respond ek! Not unpopular at all and a complete mainstream opinion.

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I hate feminists

I hate people who think that doctors are God

When someone says fed is best, they're just trying to make themselves feel better about not wanting what's best for their baby (breastmilk)

Abortion is murder

If you drink or smoke while pregnant, you're trash

Sleeping around doesn't make you cool or equal to men, it just makes you a hoe

I hate liberals

Child support shouldn't exist, it's just legal robbery

There's a reason why uncommon names are uncommon, it's because they sound stupid

The word shaming (slut shaming, fat shaming) needs to go, it's overused and annoying

People who say you was, we was, it's you were, we were, you dumb ???

There's so much more I could add, but I'll leave it at that

These kind of posts never end well ?

@new, if you think I'm a mean girl you should have seen this app a few years ago. I am allowed to defend my opinions despite them making you uncomfortable. You also won't see me carry this to other posts, I've been here long enough to get along with other users, including @mja (we went through IUD babies at the same time.)

This is tame compared to those days. My a** hid in a corner.

I like Dunkin more than Starbucks when it comes to coffee chains. I feel overwhelmed by Starbuck's offerings.

I've never seen any star wars movies.

Nor have a watched any of the Lord of the rings. Lol

Ha haa yep. I absolutely LIVE for the likes I get on baby bump. If I dont get enough i go into actual withdrawals. Someone please help me end this vicious cycle. ?

@new?

Kids on Social Media

Kids under 10 with phones

12-14 yr old girls with heavy makeup and skeezy clothes to make them look older

But the witty sarcastic digs get you likes & make you popular! Kinda like high school.

My unpopular opinion - there are a ton of mean girls on here, and this post is bringing them out.

Oh, and witty sarcastic digs are overrated.

And people who cuss in front of their kids are trashy. Seriously, it's not cute that your 1-year-old just dropped the F bomb. Not cute.

I'm fully aware that my coffee is overpriced. But my caramel macchiato with an extra shot of caramel in it is so good!!!! Seriously, it is my go to for tasty stuff.

ETA: and now I want one. ?

Cool. ?????? Here's my opinion -- probably not considered unpopular -- it's okay to reply to other people's comments.

Cool. That's why it's an -unpopular- opinion.

I drink my coffee because it tastes good & it's one of the few things I like to splurge on, I don't drink it to impress anyone. ?

In a return to the meaning of the poll.

Unpopular opinion:

Starbucks is freaking disgusting overpriced poo in a cup. I think you look like you're trying way too hard to be cool without any actual taste when you waltz through Target with a $6 double whip caramel triple sow cow.

Emmy... stop making me crush on you this week.

??‍♀️ ???‍♀️✨???✨

?❤️@emmy

@mja, I kept my rebuttal under 30 exclamation marks but okay.

Haha its not that serious! Guess I picked the wrong day to give my 2cents! I'm not gonna go back and forth with you. You have your opinion I have mine its not that difficult to understand!

@mhbb

I wonder what this will eventually evolve to. Like what if one day we all go to space.

"What space station should I have my baby at?"

"Antigravity births are far superior to earth birth."

@emmy I'd love to. Sadly whenever I do that its about the things in my life that are not perfect, the things i struggle with. It always becomes a witch hunt lmao. And I've long since learned not to try to defend myself or its a blood bath lol...

Keep on coming back though bc there are some amazing women here.

@Mja, I'm not sure why you think why everyone is concerned with how others feed their children?

...is it because we discuss BF/FF?

...on a mom app?

...a topic pertaining to babies?

...on a mom app?

S***, I've been in the wrong forum for 4 f****** years. ?

It wasn't aimed towards anyone just thought I'd put my 2 cents in ? ....

I just think the whole thing is stupid! Point is I don't care how anyone feeds their kid! Why doesn't everyone feel the same!? I'm sure we all do things as mother's that the other would frown upon! Wether you breast or formula feed

@skate, thanks, my intention was to seduce you with my butt chin and sleeping baby. ?

@mhbb

I've been here for 4 years and nothing new happens. Just a rehash of motherhood. If you could start a new post with something worthwhile that'd be great.

Sorry to be random but @emmy, I love your new profile pic. Maybe it's not new but I just noticed lol.

Yeah!!!! lets make a post about unpopular opinions so we can have the same debates we always do all on the same post!!!

Yes we rock!!!!?????

@tasha

If someone says "I'm thinking about giving up, it's so hard" it is relevant. I've been there. It's hard.

If someone says "I'm formula feeding" then I'm not going to question or push them.

And on this app, breastfeeding is viewed as best. But in the real world, I get so much s*** for breastfeeding. Have you ever read comments from the general public (not BB moms) under any posts regarding BF? Disgusting.

So until we figure out which one of us is the bigger victim I guess we will have to work on being a little less sensitive.

It wouldn't be relevant in the example though. Telling someone that breast is best when they already said they were giving up isn't the same as when someone is waffling on the subject. Someone needing encouragement to keep going and someone needing support while they stop is completely different scenarios.

And not to be rude, but if you managed to breastfeed your 2 kids, you wouldn't really get the shaming, looks, and judgements that a mom who had to formula feed receives. It's easy to say "it's all in your head" when you've never been accosted while buying formula.

@Mja

No one called you a bad mother. What others do with their children does not affect yours. I breastfed two kids and would never think to call you a bad mother so I'm not sure why a *conversation about breastfeeding* would cause you to bust out into a defensive, exclamation filled rant.

TIL that stating fact when it is relevant is shaming.

I think sometimes the persecution that some of us feel when it comes to situations like this is our own guilt manifesting itself, not brought on by others.

But what about people who post "I'm giving up breastfeeding" and you get replies like "don't give up! Breast is best!" Isn't that passive shaming? Like, "no, your choice is wrong and you're looking for support but we are going to passively aggressively tell you not to." Thankfully, I haven't seen them lately, but when I first had my son, I saw that A LOT. Hell, I got that response once upon a time. I deleted it because I was so ashamed and PPDed up that I felt like a failure.

Omg can we stop with the breast feeding formula feeding crap?! I mean seriously who cares how you feed your kid??? I know I sure as hell don't! I have 4 kids and I didn't breastfeed one! Didn't even try. Judge if you want! My kids look think and play just like the next breastfeed kid! You would have never known what they ate as a baby lol!

Now for those who have their eyes I'm the back of their heads let me tell you why I didn't even try not that its anyone's business at all! But I didn't cause I was molested as a kid by two different people hell I didn't know one way or the other if it would affect the way I felt while breastfeeding but I didn't want to take that chance! Does that make me a bad mother? Well so be it!

For example, if I see a photo of you feeding your baby a bottle of formula and I hop on the comments like "breast is best, huahuahuah..." then that is an a****** thing to do.

If we are having on open discussion about the benefits of breastfeeding or encouraging a mother who needs help BF and providing facts then that is not mom shaming. Unless someone pops in with an uneccessary comment about formula being the devil, then again, an a****** thing to do.

(And come to think of it, I've only ever seen a few users attack like this and they are no longer active. Everyone here is pretty respectful and straightforward over this issue nowadays.)

I'm sorry that some of you have felt belittled in the past.

Any mother feeding her child is the BEST no matter how she does it.

I like you orangemoon!!!!

To comment on the breast is best issue.

I don't know the intentions of everyone who says "breast is best" to another woman, but when I say it, I say it because science tells us it is best. Usually as a rebuttal to someone discouraging or discrediting breastfeeding, not as an attack. Just a fact. I can believe that moms get shamed for not breastfeeding and I understand that y'all are hurt and on the defensive. Moms who breastfeed are shamed and discredited as well and we go on the defensive too. I think this is something you'll encounter as a mother in general, regardless if you are pro BF or FF.

Facts shouldn't make us feel "judged." If someone is going to the length to make you feel bad about your decision then that speaks about the person themselves, not BF or FF.

Agree with skate's feelings. I very much wanted to breastfeed. I had no bottles or formula in my home when I gave birth because the thought of needing it never even crossed my mind. Sometimes things don't work out like we planned, and it's a shame we have to beat ourselves up about it. I wish I was breastfeeding my 15-month-old right now because I know it's best. A lot of people, even here, use breast is best to shame other moms. I appreciate the people saying breast is best, but nothing is wrong with formula.

- I think religion is evil.

- circumcision for none medical reasons is wrong.

- babies with huge bows on their head look stupid.

- feeding my child a happy meal isn't a big deal.

I don't believe in a traditional god, I believe religion is evil as well.

I believe it's impossible to love animals and not be vegan, and I believe fluoride is poison, and I'm 1000000% pro marijuana *its legal where I'm from* also I believe skin is skin and I don't judge people for wearing as little or as much clothing as they want. I think ignoring the systematic oppression of poc is just as bad as those who support it, I believe in sacred geometry and spirit science. And I agree circumcision is wrong, I don't understand how we all know female genital mutilation is wrong yet people still support it for males.

@ Ek panties in a twist ?????

@serena... oh that's so interesting. I'll have to look into that. I've never heard that, but it'll be a cool thing to look into. It definitely doesn't affect me now. I know I did what I had to at the time and it was absolutely the best choice for both me and Ivy. But as a new mom is definitely had an affect on me. I thought it might be interesting to bring that point of view to the table.

Why do people care what substances others ingest? As long as they're not responsible for kids at the time or driving around in their car etc etc, then that's their decision to make. Not sure why anyone would get their panties in a twist over what others do in their spare time if it doesn't affect them one bit.

Saying this as a non-weed smoking, barely alcohol drinking person. Whooooo tf cares?

A lot of these opinions have been repeated 20+ times so they're not actually unpopular.

@skate there's actually a lot of studies that claim that formula might actually be better for babies because of the amount of toxins we accumulate over the course of our lives end up in our breast milk...and this is coming from a mom who breastfed. You really shouldn't let that phrase have power over you because as long as you know you did what you could for your daughter then who cares?

Just gonna stick my nose in the conversation for a sec. As a mother who tried to breastfeed but wasn't successful for many reason, some medical and some because of lack of support, hearing breast is best breaks my heart. It's absolutely true, but it really is a punch in the gut. We all want to do what's best for our babies and knowing that I couldn't do what was best made me feel like an absolute failure and that I failed Ivy. I did what was second best for her and I've now accepted how things went. But while I was suffering from ppd and really struggling with the fact that I couldn't give my daughter breast milk, having someone tell me "fed is best" truly saved me a little. Not because breast is best isn't true, because is very much is, but because it was encouraging to have someone tell me I wasn't completely failing my baby. While I'm sure there are people who truly are offended by the saying "breast is best", I think a lot of mamas are like me and only find it painful because it makes us feel like we failed.

@randi me either and no matter who you follow it still manages to show up in the explorer

There were so many unpopular opinions I thought someone would have reported it by now ?

@who I think its legal in certain counties but not my particular county. I do know that Nevada just made it legal. Trip to Vegas anyone? ?

Breast is best it's been proven millions of times lol but NOTHING wrong with formula .

I feel that woman who think is an insult to say breast is best are just bitter.

The term "fed is best" ......

Makes me look at ppl like ddduuuhhhhhhhh !!!!!!

Serena, it is legal for personal use at your home. I looked up the laws (even though it made headlines last year) this past summer when we visited. There's so many places you can go and buy now with just your regular ID. Same as Las Vegas, NV.

I'm back with more opinions ?

If you have to dress with your boobies hanging out and your arse hanging out under your shorts, I'm judging you. Maybe it makes you feel "empowered" but to me you look trashy. I don't care how attractive, unattractive, overweight, underweight, or perfect you are, you're making yourself look trashy.

Modest dressers look so much more attractive than people who barely dress at all.?

Coffee is nasty. What's all the hype over Starbucks?

I also hate Reese's. Yuck

I think I'm done here ?

I also love "bloody" and "arse" I wish we talked like that haha

Why would this thread be closed? We are all sharing our opinion. ?

And I'm side eyeing a few bbers really hard ?

I'm so surprised this hasn't been closed yet and weeds not legal until 2018 guys. Here in CA right now it's legal with a medical reccomendation card but for recreational purposes its next year. And even then the state gave the cities and counties jurisdiction over choosing to allow or not allow growing and buying.

When people post pics of their dirty arse houses. Clutter is ok, but dirt?!? If you're willing to show some of that mess on a public forum I'm wondering what the rest looks like ? clean. It's not that hard.

"Don't mind the mess" comments... well now that you said it- I can't stop staring.

People who think breast is best is an insult to formula. I mean kale is best, but spinach doesn't get its panties in a twist over it.

? Was seriously thinking back over everything i'd said lately. Thought i'd been a good girl and toned my smartarsery down a little so was very confused ?

Sorry to give you a crisis, @cenedra. ?

Ahhh, excellent. Thanks for that Chantilly. Would have played on my bloody mind all night ?

Lol! These are too funny. I don't lump trump supporters together. There are a few categories....

The ignorant ones who believe in his lies even when he said the opposite thing a week ago or history science, facts prove him wrong.

And the hostile ones who think all Muslims are bad or hung dummies of obama during his presidency; who call people things libtards and snowflakes when in a debate. Who hate/fear the thought of their country turning brown.

Then there are the ones who just go by who their parent's supported and it's all rainbows and butterflies.

I'm not talking about supporters as people who want him to succeed im his presidency...which would be cool depending on your idea of succeeding. I'm talking about his followers.

I do have friends who fit a couple of these categories and sometimes we argue and they know my opinion so we try not to discuss politics, but I have a $50 bet that he is impeached or resigns before his next term.

Anywho. I forgot that we won the popular vote so this really doesn't belong here.

I love it when @cenedra says "mate" haha

Ohhhhhhh thank you! Im glad someone helped me figure that out! I felt so lost trying to guess these abbreviations lol. I literally googled some and wasnt sure if they were accurate answers.. hahahaha.

@Cenedra you were brought up by @Emmy. She said @mckenzie3 was the American version of you. ?

Oohh am i the only one that hates that documentary on Netflix " what the health" ??

They did have some good points but too exaggerated , nd the women they had there's no way they just magically got better in 2 weeks with a full plant based diet no way !!! Nd no way you can feed a family with $20 something dollars a weeks only plant based , the family will starve​. Nd I feel that alot of documentaries like this are very bious .

Pps go to all groups and select announcements. You'll see an abbreviations post

Shay2bbygirls omg I was gonna say something about the abbreviations!!! They annoy the s*** outta me ! I don't know what half of them mean like DD ?! I just don't get it ????

Oh, and half of these abbreviations bug the s*** out of me, because i have no idea what they mean!! I know that i cant be the only one out here thinking that! Lmao

Wouldn't block you EK ??

Glad to know I'm not nuts though. Was scrolling, seen my name and so scrolled back but couldn't work out why at all. Even ctrl F'd and hunted ?

I love Simon Cowell.

I hate being a SAHM. (I miss working, school and being a nurse)

I dislike all this hype about Beyonce and her twins, Kim K and her kids weird names.

I HATE the Kardashians (but that would be a popular opinion, lol)

I love cartoons and children movies.

Parents who use Marijuana recreationally and/or medically are okay, As long as they are responsible about it and not using while pregnant or in front of children.

(Cant wait till i can smoke a joint again) idgaf what you all think ??

@Cen I couldn't figure out how you got brought up earlier either. I scrolled through twice trying to find a comment you might've left since you were being mentioned. Didn't see anything & worried you blocked me. I was all upset because you're one of my fave users ?

@thisisfeeney yes the media can hype it up and bring more attention to the things that will separate however they are there to report on the newsworthy. What events of unity and togetherness across races have happened that were newsworthy recently? And while you believe racism exists many don't. I've flat out heard the statement "racism is over." And they really expect me to be like, really it's gone!? I had no idea.....yes for people like that I'm glad the media is showing them racism is still alive.

I do get what your saying though, maybe one day it can actually be that way and we'll have some unifying events that bring us together happening that are newsworthy.

@doimakeyourandi it blocked some of what you said in the beginning I couldn't read it all

Look whatcha started Feeney ?

I'm still waiting for someone to tell me why i was brought up earlier btw. Something was deleted hmmm ?

@orange I just wanted to point out I didn't mean racism is all hype. I said it is very real and we should be aware. It's wrong. But the media it seems purposely causes a separation. They instigate and get the citizens all fired up. Instead of bringing people together and becoming unified they cause sides.