I think we finally have our names!!

Yeah I like the sound of Connor Cade it flows

@Danismilealot we have decided to name him Connor Cade?

I like Connor Cain (even though I have a horrible ex who's last name is Cain, and the whole Cain and Abel thing haha) Connor Cayde would be cute or Connor Christopher. Middle names are hard to choose in my opinion haha

I love your names!!!

I like Connor chance

Or Connor Cade

Hope this helps

I have a girl named connor

My friends have a boy named Conner Cash and it's pretty cool ;)

@Mariea I love that name! I never even thought of that, and it does have the same flow! ??

What about the name Cade? It's my nephews name and still has that same flow to it?

Good luck anyway ?

Thank you ladies ❤ Unfortunately, our little man still doesn't have a name. I still adore Connor Cain but my husband says he doesn't like the name Cain anymore. We are still going back and forth and I always let him know I still like it?.

His parents are actually here visiting from Florida now so we haven't been able to discuss names since we decided we will be keeping the name a secret til our baby boy's name is on the birth certificate(they were NOT a fan of that) lol. My in-laws visiting is also why I haven't really been on much lately...uuhh ladies give me strength hahah I really wish I got along better with my in-laws but that's just not the case.

Hubby and I are pretty set on a name for our daughter but both of our families hate it. We have decided not to tell anyone until she is here so I don't have to Listen to them complain on how much they hate it.

I would just tell them its our baby, this is the name, your opinions are not needed or wanted. Then just ignore the subject completely. Dont even argue about it. Just let it go in one ear and out the other and do exactly what YOU want with YOUR child. My hubby & i dont care what anyone thinks of the names we chose. All that matters is what you & him think. Youre the ones who have to live with it.

& if you're now changing the name from Cain (which i love, was gonna use before on baby #2) choose something you both like and who cares if it isnt Jesse like they want.

Its nice of you to be respectful of them, i am with mine also. But you can be respectful and still do what you want to do :)

Hope you get things figured out, that's upsetting they are not supporting your name. My MIL wasn't happy when I told her we are doing cloth diapers, her reply was "No your not." I'm not backing down, this is my baby and I am making my own decisions. I've gotten A LOT of negative feedback on the cloth diaper situation. Do what makes you feel happy as I would hate you to regret it. My name is Mallory and it means "unlucky." I still like my name and everyone tells me it's beautiful.

Why can't people just be happy for the couple?? I'm sorry you have to deal with that.

@Nrj28 that is for sure! I told my husband yesterday I'm done talking to her. He can deal with her from now on.

@Mwick DO NOT TELL YOUR IN LAWS THE NEW NAME YOU PICK.

Sorry for the caps, I thought it was important. We are not revealing our baby's name until birth because I don't want to hear anyone's opinion about it. You know what I mean? I don't even think I've revealed it here!

If it makes you feel any better, the names you picked out are really great! I really love these names. Ultimately it is your decision. Good luck!

I brought up the idea of changing the spelling of the name to Caine last night. Since the spelling in the bible is Cain..

Unfortunately my husband told me he no longer likes the name. I'm not sure how much I believe that considering he was so excited about it just the day before.

I am slightly frustrated because it seems my in-laws are indeed getting to make this decision for us. Its just the icing on the cake for me as well because I was already on the rocks with my MIL and now I'm just so over it.

My ex-MIL influenced my oldest Sons middle name. He's 15 and I still wish he had the name I wanted. Do what you want! It's your child! I told my ex-husband that and he had the final day. Our last name is Dean. His name is Cameron Paul Dean. Paul is after his Father and Grandfather, so don't get me wrong I love his name. But, I wanted it to be Cameron James Dean and call him C.J. I thought it was cute. But, his Mom threw a fit about James Dean and Rebel without a cause. Lol Oh well.

I'm not religious but I get why the family would be upset by that. According to the bible, Cain is the first murder, killing his brother. Son of the "original people" Adam and Eve.

I don't think it makes anyone named Cain a bad person, I think people just tend to judge the name and would cause most religious people to look crossly at it.

Ah thanks for explaining, OP! I still like the name a lot ?

Love love love! So cute!!

Thank you for the support ladies ❤ We are still discussing what we are going to do.

@Kicc its from the bible. Cain killed his brother Abel.

It's difficult when family members do not agree on name choices. My mom doesn't like the girls name we choose or either middle name. But its not her choice and she will love the baby regardless of how she feels about the name now. We aren't changing the names we choose.

Love it! We have a Connor as well and it's a great name. Strong, and easy to spell!

What do you mean about the background of the name Cain? Is there a negative connotation? Love all the names by the way!

@Lindsj47 my husband and I were just discussing that! He is not happy right now with how they reacted. I'm not sure what we will do yet. We just know how they are and they WILL not drop this. Personally I want to keep the middle name. My husband and I both do. We just don't want conflict when this is supposed to be a happy time.

I live alliterative names as well :)

It's nice that you want to be respectful of them...but they really shouldn't be speaking into your decision on this. If we took out the name of everyone who ever did anything bad there would be no names. No Charlies, Sams, etc. Do what makes you feel comfortable now because it's good practice for the rest of your kids lives lol.

Welp..Cain didn't go over well with the in-laws. I totally understand the background of the name. It doesn't mean if my son had that as a middle name that he would be a bad person. Now I feel guilty for liking the name. We may have to continue talking about middle names because I know my husbands parents will not drop this...

Thank you lovely ladies❤

Love em!

Love your names! Good choices :)

Cute names!