Thank you ladies for your responses.

I've gone thru it a few times . The best thing we did was counseling to make sure I could forgive him and move past it. Trust is the hardest part, but we take it day by day.

It takes time definitely but he needs to know what he did and how you are going to have trust issues until he shows you he's changed. I'm Christian and it seems like once he got involved in going to church with me and everything involved in that he changed. I still get scared sometimes though.

The trust is the biggest issue for me. I don't think know how a relationship comes back from something like that and how you rebuild that trust.

I've dealt with it I have been with him for almost 8 years now. It happened a few times a lot of lying not sure about the actual cheating on me he would never tell me. I heard from other people what happened but we are young were now 20 and 21 it happened 2 years ago. I have forgave him and I'd say we're really happy but it's really hard to fully trust him.

When I was 13 weeks I dealt with this with my husband, but he had been unfaitful over a year and a half before when we were engaged, before we even got married. I ended up sitting down with him and his ex he cheated on me with, and I got the whole truth and laid out how I felt and he told her his alcoholism played a huge role in talking to her and that the tings he said to her about wanting her were lies. And she agreed not to bother us any more. I of course have trust issues here, he is aware that I check his facebook, we share a phone so he hardly is ever alone with it, but his attitude towards me has changed 200% in a positive direction since he isnt having to lie and feel guilty now. He says he doesnt ever want his daughter to know because it is the biggest most emberasing mistake he has ever made. We have been going to church and praying together and things are going really well. I wish the best of luck to you and hope this helps. Through God, all things are possible.