Obsessive Does anyone else feel completely consumed by wanting to get pregnant? I feel like it's all I ever think about…

I think we are all at least a little obsessed. I have been dreaming of the day my man would be ready to have kids.

Its finally time and I just want to be pregnant already.

Thank you, I got my bfp yesterday! Hoping for a sticky bean this time ?

@crunchycxmumma88 good luck to you too :) ❤

Good luck hun!

Last month was our first month TTC and I thought that I might be pregnant but all I was doing was driving myself crazy with symptom spotting and then when AF did arrive I was devastated, decided to use opks this month but after this I have decided not to use them anymore, just be spontaneous and see what happens for us fingers crossed for a wee baby soon :) x

Thank you, you too!

Good luck and baby dust!

I'm getting so nervous/excited to test! Monday morning can't come soon enough.

I'm soo itching to test. 9fpo so it's really early but I've been cramping a lot. So Idk. I'm almost dreading both outcomes now..

Exactly!

Just in case I don't believe one Courtney. Then I can verify it on 6 more ?

? That's awesome!

I went out and bought some frers last night. Got home and realised I now have 7 different types/brands of hpts in stock!! ?

With my first I was obsessed. And as soon as I just went with the flow and didn't worry about anything was the month I got pregnant! This time.. No idea how it happened so soon because I was obsessed ? lol

I know... looking at my calendar I should be golden and taking suggested vitamins and stuff to promote a happy environment for implantation and to help keep the bean sticky but idk.

I have a feeling that I will feel the same way if I get a bfn this month. It's so easy to feel discouraged and to be impatient. This is our first month ttc after my chemical, and I'm afraid that if I don't get pregnant this month I will be crushed ?

I'm kinda have a feeling that no matter how my calendar looks or how good I am with taking vitamins it's just not going to happen anytime soon. It's not like I've been trying long, it's my first cycle. But anyone else feel that way?

And about testing... I'm waiting until my AF is late. I only got 1 BFN so far, because we just started trying, but it's still really annoying. So I rather wait this time. Hopefully I don't get consumed by excitement and curiosity lol it's easier said than done. ??

No one knows about us TTC either... My family expects me to get pregnant right away when we start trying... Which puts way too much pressure on me. So I haven't said a word about it. Because if I don't get preggo right away, I don't want them wondering if there's anything wrong with me or my husband. Only my best friend and my hubby knows. It's better that way. BFNs are crushing enough...?

Same here af is due the 24th I'm so nervous and scared. Hubby thinks he caught the egg not sure he's very nervous. She we shall see

Yes! It's the 2wws I can't stand ? I wish we could know straight away!

I am 100% obsessed!

I feel ya! That's exactly why I'm not testing until 19dpo. I'm so scared of having another chemical!

I'm with you. I had no symptoms with my first until about 6/7 weeks so when I have them I don't entirely believe them. I only use cheap tests too, I know they are really not very sensitive and seeing negatives helps me not get my hopes up. I have had a chemical and never want to see a positive disappear again so I'm happy to not pick up a positive till late xx

I'm completely obsessed. When I had my 1st I got no symptoms until 8 weeks. This time round, I've had nausea and tiredness already and I'm only 5/6dpo, so it's all in my head I think.

No one knows about us TTC either, it's nice to have you wonderful ladies as support. I also had a chemical our first month TTC & if I get another BFP I know I will have that fear of being disappointed again....makes me not want to test at all?

How do you know if that's what happened. Like what does it entail?

Even if I do get a bfp, I will be so scared to have another chemical pregnancy! I will prob check for blood every single time I wipe ?

I know me too... that's why I'm going to try not to test before af is late unless I have some for sure signs, like ib.

I am so nervous, I feel like I will be crushed if I get a bfn /-:

Same here... I'm trying not to get ahead of myself but I can't help it. It's so exciting lol

Me too! And no one knows we are ttc soooo keeping myself all bottled up! So glad I'm not the only one! So anything cool you guys have come across in your research? ;p

Girl ur so not alone,that's all I think about and all I want,I already have everything picked out names etc...

Lol true! I'm constantly looking at FF and this app and looking up early pregnancy symptoms etc

You are definitely not alone! I have been looking at everything baby for the past 2 weeks. I have until Tuesday to wait, so how else am I supposed to fill that time!? Lol

Haha I feel you. I already have a birth plan, a "practice" registry put together on Amazon and I have watched so many videos on breastfeeding that I'm dreaming about it. So you're not alone, promise :D lol

It's nice to know I'm not alone. I need to stop being so obsessive somehow ?

I honestly felt the same way about opk testing! It's consuming and I was soo fed up with it that I just decided not to test anymore. I completely understand where your coming from