im embarrassed
I'm embarrassed of my extra skin... I know that giving birth is an amazing thing and I should be proud that I have two healthy kids. And I know the extra fat will Go away but what about the extra skin. I had a vbac this time around and was definitely not prepared for this postpartum body.... I just wanna feel pretty, and comfortable in my own skin but right now..... I'm really lacking self esteem and confidence because of my pooch .... It hangs over so much more than after my first... I know I'm not ugly or fat but I definitely don't feel beautiful right now and it's taking it till on me emotionally. Just a rant for the day.. I don't wanna bother my husband with silly things like this cuz he always tells me how pretty I am and Is so supportive but no matter what he tell me I still feel down inside :/
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It's only been 2 weeks. I know it'll take time. Just the difference in your body between a vaginal birth and a C-section were more different than I thought
How long has it been? My deflated twin belly was frightening at first, but I'm comfortable in my skin now. It took several weeks for things to get back together. Once I was cleared to exercise, I walked with them everyday. I also did exercises for diastasis recti every time I prepared their bottles. It takes time to heal. Don't be too hard on yourself!
I think it depends how much you have but I've heard that you can get it removed and donated to a burn center for free if you qualify? S.O has a friend who dropped 300 lbs and is apparently doing that.