Let’s chat ?? What do you ladies do to get your libido up?

I’m 30 weeks pregnant now so I’m never in the mood. But I find when I’m not pregnant the more we dtd the more I’m in the mood for it. If we are in a rut and not doing it ever then I never feel like it. But if I push my self to do it more then I find that I’m in the mood a lot more often if that makes sense

I was really struggling to get going recently with all the hormones. Even though I wasn’t in the mood, I just forced myself to get started and I was in the mood in no time ?

I’ve found the more intimate I am helps. Taking the time to cuddle. Do things for one another. Give us that reconnection helps

Eta when I quit breastfeeding my libido definitely went up.

The more sex you have, the more you want

I convinced my husband that naps help ? that way I'm not all grumpy and tired once the kids are in bed.

Following for a friend ?

Agree with the more often they more u want it.. sometimes we Are absolutely exhausted and have no desire whatsoever a week or 2passes and I'm like fack this just get on with it lol.. and what do u know.. it's like that for the next however many days... till tiredness takes over again ?

Cocaine usually.

Jk, following bc lately I'm repulsed by the thought of it

Agree with Newly. The more you have it, the more you want it.

I tell dh if he wants it then it starts in the morning. Be sweet waking me up, send me texts he is thinking about me or just tell me something about his day so I know I was on his mind and he felt he needed to talk even for a second, if dinner isn't finished when he gets home he takes over tells me go rest, after dinner he cleans up (oh panty dropper?), after that he will say go take some time to myself while he deals with the kids or we will have family time, then he helps get everyone in bed. This causes a less stressful and exhausting evening for me so that when they are all in bed I'll be more inclined to want to let him stick his tongue in my mouth? you know foreplay from there helps.

We had trouble with this a lot from BC or pregnancy so it was something we had to actually sit down talk about and agree on.

Try to think about it early in the day and get yourself dolled up and sexy. If you look the part you’ll feel the part.

My kids are used to seeing me clean our toilets in stilettos and fishnets. ?? Jk.. Please wait till they’re in bed!

Ugh. 8 1/2 months PP, breastfeeding and completely repulsed by the thought of it.

We have sex at least every other night and have since 2 weeks PP. I do not agree with the more you have it, the more you want it statement ?

I think nasty things ?? helps me during and before while foreplay is happening

? 2 weeks PP?!?!?

Foreplay will help a lot. Sending dirty text throughout the day helps. Try picturing you guys before kids n how it was. Tell him to take command if your not that type, he could be doing things to get you in the mood as well

That’s all i got ?

2 weeks PP makes my vagina/c sec scar quiver

2 weeks? Holy ouch and infection. ??

Yeah I dunno... 2 wks PP I would be scarred and uninterested in sex for the next 8 months too

2 weeks pp ? makes my vagina want to shrivel up and die

So, the more sex we have the more I’ll want it? That’s what Dh has been telling me all along ??

It doesn’t help that I am the least the sexy person when it comes down to it. I don’t know if anyone remembers, but I kicked my poor dog in the face while trying to twerk it for Dh ?

??? poor Benji?

It’s been almost 5 months since my SO & I have done anything. He’s dying but I’m really scared. I want to so bad but I’m just afraid of hurting.

Watching naughty movies with husband :)

I notice having more sex helps. Lately we would go without sex for a whole week and when we did have sex it was so boring to me. Well last week I just tried to have more and more sex and for some reason I found myself wanting it more. Also just thinking about nasty stuff we had done in the pass helped.

Pampering myself. Taking time to shave, lotion, etc. Makes me feel sexy.

Following this ?

My sex drive is pretty much dead. Adios.

I know the more you have the more you want but even getting started is a task. I just want to sleep to be honest. ?

Once it’s happening I’m like “ why don’t we do this more often” but getting there is the difficult part.

I'm almost 11 months PP and just these last 3 months, I have finally been wanting it more. No lie, at first I would choose sleep over sex lmao. Now I'm like, ok it's time go get back to our grind. If we go longer than a week without it's like starting back at 1 again. Try and have sex at least 3 times a week.

Following

I'm glad I'm not the only one.

Ftm, breastfeeding and on the mini pill.

What is sex? ??

I read some dirty romance novels ? think about my husband all day, he gives me back rubs, rarely a shot makes me feel rowdy haha. Definitely the more frequently it happens the more i want it. Esp if he is fresh showered with my fav soap

Dd still sleeps in the bed with us too so if we ever do anything we have to leave the room. Which isn’t a big deal, but the effort of having to get up and walk to then have sex is enough for me to be like nahhh

Almost 5months pp, mini pill, and so uninterested in sex. I have such guilt over it ?

Sleep > sex.

Most of the time DH picks sleep. I’m more of the I want sex one. Sometimes I’ll deny him if he’s irritated me all day after I’ve patiently waited all week ??

But definitely understand the effort to leave bed to get it on is too much work. I agree.

Must be why you’re so uptight.

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Can someone get me some ice for that sweet burn?

Lissa, are you really stooping so low to bump my posts? But sure, I’m the bully ?

I got you boo ❄️❄️ (that’s as close to Ice as I could find)

What'd you do csavvy?

^^lmao

Lissa why are you harassing csavvy??? Because she didn't agree with your opinion about homeschooling being damaging to kids? Not everyone will agree. Stop stalking her old posts.

You’ll have to look at my recent post. She’s mad that Yaya and I asked her to provide sources for some info she claimed to be factual

Nikki ?

That could work

How embarrassing.

Soooo did she post her facts or just attack you on a whole different post?

No facts have been posted.

Zero facts, many opinions

I love that it was THIS post though.

Says the person who creeped csavv & bumped her post HOURS later ? ☕️

I’m never in the mood ! Having soft skin kind of encourages me because I want him to feel my soft legs. Lol. I’m into a lot of erotica novels and that gets me in the mood and takes me far into imagination.

And also, so weird but I want him more when he isn’t paying attention to me or tryinggg to have sex with me. When he’s all looking good in his own little world I’m like “hellllooooo why arnt you horny??”

I think I’ve shared too much

Maybe use some ice during sex

Getting drunk

Did you need this post v? Low on sex drive and need tips?

im sorry what do you do with the ice? ?

Put it in your mouth while pleasing your man vice versa

Both hubby & I work FT, but opposite shifts (& we have 3 boys; 7, 4 & 4 months) so naturally we choose sleep over anything but in the last week we find ourselves having sex twice a week (that's a lot for us ?) I think us being on opposite shifts we miss each other and miss being intimate!

Put what in the what?

I think Demi needs the ice, not me ?

I was gonna say have your man put it in his mouth then stick it in you but I guess pps idea can work too...

The only thing I’m putting in my mouth is this bottle of wine ??

I’d kick my husband in the face if he puts an ice on me

Wow... today’s posts escalated quickly!

Ice... just watch Fifty Shades ???

Omg I did not word that right at all but put the Ice in your mouth lol

Have your husband tie you up nd give you head ?

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@body Low? Yes. Absolutely. Need the post? Nope. Just thought it was funny that this month old post about sex drive is what she sought out to try and get in that sick burn.