Let’s chat ?? What do you ladies do to get your libido up?

@body Low? Yes. Absolutely. Need the post? Nope. Just thought it was funny that this month old post about sex drive is what she sought out to try and get in that sick burn.

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Have your husband tie you up nd give you head ?

Omg I did not word that right at all but put the Ice in your mouth lol

Wow... today’s posts escalated quickly!

Ice... just watch Fifty Shades ???

I’d kick my husband in the face if he puts an ice on me

The only thing I’m putting in my mouth is this bottle of wine ??

I was gonna say have your man put it in his mouth then stick it in you but I guess pps idea can work too...

I think Demi needs the ice, not me ?

Put what in the what?

Both hubby & I work FT, but opposite shifts (& we have 3 boys; 7, 4 & 4 months) so naturally we choose sleep over anything but in the last week we find ourselves having sex twice a week (that's a lot for us ?) I think us being on opposite shifts we miss each other and miss being intimate!

Put it in your mouth while pleasing your man vice versa

im sorry what do you do with the ice? ?

Did you need this post v? Low on sex drive and need tips?

Getting drunk

Maybe use some ice during sex

I’m never in the mood ! Having soft skin kind of encourages me because I want him to feel my soft legs. Lol. I’m into a lot of erotica novels and that gets me in the mood and takes me far into imagination.

And also, so weird but I want him more when he isn’t paying attention to me or tryinggg to have sex with me. When he’s all looking good in his own little world I’m like “hellllooooo why arnt you horny??”

I think I’ve shared too much

Says the person who creeped csavv & bumped her post HOURS later ? ☕️

I love that it was THIS post though.

Zero facts, many opinions

No facts have been posted.

Soooo did she post her facts or just attack you on a whole different post?

How embarrassing.

Nikki ?

That could work

You’ll have to look at my recent post. She’s mad that Yaya and I asked her to provide sources for some info she claimed to be factual

Lissa why are you harassing csavvy??? Because she didn't agree with your opinion about homeschooling being damaging to kids? Not everyone will agree. Stop stalking her old posts.

^^lmao

What'd you do csavvy?

I got you boo ❄️❄️ (that’s as close to Ice as I could find)

Can someone get me some ice for that sweet burn?

Lissa, are you really stooping so low to bump my posts? But sure, I’m the bully ?

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Must be why you’re so uptight.

Sleep > sex.

Most of the time DH picks sleep. I’m more of the I want sex one. Sometimes I’ll deny him if he’s irritated me all day after I’ve patiently waited all week ??

But definitely understand the effort to leave bed to get it on is too much work. I agree.

Almost 5months pp, mini pill, and so uninterested in sex. I have such guilt over it ?

Dd still sleeps in the bed with us too so if we ever do anything we have to leave the room. Which isn’t a big deal, but the effort of having to get up and walk to then have sex is enough for me to be like nahhh

I read some dirty romance novels ? think about my husband all day, he gives me back rubs, rarely a shot makes me feel rowdy haha. Definitely the more frequently it happens the more i want it. Esp if he is fresh showered with my fav soap

Following

I'm glad I'm not the only one.

Ftm, breastfeeding and on the mini pill.

What is sex? ??

I'm almost 11 months PP and just these last 3 months, I have finally been wanting it more. No lie, at first I would choose sleep over sex lmao. Now I'm like, ok it's time go get back to our grind. If we go longer than a week without it's like starting back at 1 again. Try and have sex at least 3 times a week.

Following this ?

My sex drive is pretty much dead. Adios.

I know the more you have the more you want but even getting started is a task. I just want to sleep to be honest. ?

Once it’s happening I’m like “ why don’t we do this more often” but getting there is the difficult part.

Pampering myself. Taking time to shave, lotion, etc. Makes me feel sexy.

I notice having more sex helps. Lately we would go without sex for a whole week and when we did have sex it was so boring to me. Well last week I just tried to have more and more sex and for some reason I found myself wanting it more. Also just thinking about nasty stuff we had done in the pass helped.

Watching naughty movies with husband :)

It’s been almost 5 months since my SO & I have done anything. He’s dying but I’m really scared. I want to so bad but I’m just afraid of hurting.

??? poor Benji?

2 weeks pp ? makes my vagina want to shrivel up and die

So, the more sex we have the more I’ll want it? That’s what Dh has been telling me all along ??

It doesn’t help that I am the least the sexy person when it comes down to it. I don’t know if anyone remembers, but I kicked my poor dog in the face while trying to twerk it for Dh ?

Yeah I dunno... 2 wks PP I would be scarred and uninterested in sex for the next 8 months too

2 weeks? Holy ouch and infection. ??

2 weeks PP makes my vagina/c sec scar quiver

That’s all i got ?

Foreplay will help a lot. Sending dirty text throughout the day helps. Try picturing you guys before kids n how it was. Tell him to take command if your not that type, he could be doing things to get you in the mood as well

? 2 weeks PP?!?!?

I think nasty things ?? helps me during and before while foreplay is happening

Ugh. 8 1/2 months PP, breastfeeding and completely repulsed by the thought of it.

We have sex at least every other night and have since 2 weeks PP. I do not agree with the more you have it, the more you want it statement ?

Try to think about it early in the day and get yourself dolled up and sexy. If you look the part you’ll feel the part.

My kids are used to seeing me clean our toilets in stilettos and fishnets. ?? Jk.. Please wait till they’re in bed!

I tell dh if he wants it then it starts in the morning. Be sweet waking me up, send me texts he is thinking about me or just tell me something about his day so I know I was on his mind and he felt he needed to talk even for a second, if dinner isn't finished when he gets home he takes over tells me go rest, after dinner he cleans up (oh panty dropper?), after that he will say go take some time to myself while he deals with the kids or we will have family time, then he helps get everyone in bed. This causes a less stressful and exhausting evening for me so that when they are all in bed I'll be more inclined to want to let him stick his tongue in my mouth? you know foreplay from there helps.

We had trouble with this a lot from BC or pregnancy so it was something we had to actually sit down talk about and agree on.

Agree with Newly. The more you have it, the more you want it.

Cocaine usually.

Jk, following bc lately I'm repulsed by the thought of it

Agree with the more often they more u want it.. sometimes we Are absolutely exhausted and have no desire whatsoever a week or 2passes and I'm like fack this just get on with it lol.. and what do u know.. it's like that for the next however many days... till tiredness takes over again ?

Following for a friend ?

I convinced my husband that naps help ? that way I'm not all grumpy and tired once the kids are in bed.

The more sex you have, the more you want

I’ve found the more intimate I am helps. Taking the time to cuddle. Do things for one another. Give us that reconnection helps

Eta when I quit breastfeeding my libido definitely went up.

I was really struggling to get going recently with all the hormones. Even though I wasn’t in the mood, I just forced myself to get started and I was in the mood in no time ?

I’m 30 weeks pregnant now so I’m never in the mood. But I find when I’m not pregnant the more we dtd the more I’m in the mood for it. If we are in a rut and not doing it ever then I never feel like it. But if I push my self to do it more then I find that I’m in the mood a lot more often if that makes sense