Thanks for undetstanding I wasn't singling you out lol. Just get annoyed when others start throwing around the favortism card. Trust me I've had plenty of posts no one responds to. I just assume no one knows what to say to my posts lol or 1 person already said what everyone else was thinking. Dont give up!
My phone died jatilley but thanks I realize that. I just went through everyone's posts and I know what you guys mean. I hate that the old stuff is still at the top I see things on here from 20 weeks ago still. I wish new posts were on first so you could see all the new things people are saying. I also have seen a lot of the same posts 2 or 3 times but no until later I feel like some show up and others don't.
For the record, multiple people have commented on this thread and the OP has not said a word. If you want people to participate in your conversation then you need to take part too. No one wants to spend time giving a thoughtful response for no reason. People have given reasons as to why someone's post might not get responses, and to call it favoritism seems like a cop out. IMO. If you just want an answer to something without taking part in the conversation, just google it. I see it plenty if times. Person asks question, people reply, person never acknowledges.. no one wants to play that game. Its a waste of time
Sometimes I feel that the people that's on here often that comment on each other post look out for their post and comment, and becomes like a favoritism thing this is a site that nobody knows nobody really and it's for support and help!! But sometimes you don't get that when your seriously asking questions!!
I can't stand the polls lol. I try to search for related topics to what I want to post before I do anything. That way people don't have to answer the same thing over and over. I'm also a software consultant so I'm overly anal about searching for a topic before creating one hahah. But I also just post a random thought or post that is specific to me (I.e. my feelings vs. Is back pain normal) and if people want to comment then great! If not, oh well. I also think what you title your subject is super important. Make it provocative and relevant to your post.
I kinda felt the same, I haven't posted or commented much because I feel like my input and posts don't matter as much as others. I posted a pic of my daughter's ultrasound and got 0 responses and see other women with like 20 likes and 15 comments. I know it's most likely all of my emotions getting to me...but it still kinda hurt so I took it down.
I agree with Jess...a lot of the posts are a bit redundant. And if someone posts something I can shed light on, I'll comment. Generally lately a lot of posts pertain to sonogram confirmations (I don't typically reply because I'm not pro haha) and name opinions--again, I rarely reply because I don't want to step on anyone's toes. If the post is interesting I def reply though!! ☺??
I'm like Mrs. Green eyed jess, I try to post on all topics but sometimes it is hard when a lot of posts are posted because then posts are moved further down the list. My advice is to keep 'bumping' your post until you get the response you need. That normally fixes the response thing.
Short Luteal Phase2
A new post for katie058 and hopefully bcappel soontoo, as ours got too long!
GENDER POST! ??????
Alright mommas for everyone whose going to be finding out gender sometime in November or later..lets get a post going and keep each other updated. And for everyone who has already found out post below what you thought you were going to have and what you are actually having! ?
@rochellelovesherkids2018, at it again with the fake posts 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
Lol yes!!! I just say oh well next topic! Lmao