ttc after first pregnancy was miscarriage
ttc after first pregnancy was miscarriage
how many of you are here with no living children only angel babies? I'm so worried since my first pregnancy turned out to be a miscarriage, that my second on will be too. we are TTC again and I think I might actually get my bfp but not until the 5th! does this worry any of you also? I'm trying to stay positive!
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I too worry about this. My first pregnancy ended at 25 weeks June 2011. We waited a year and half before we ttc again and got pregnant right away but it just ended a week ago in a missed miscarriage. I am devastated and keep thinking will I only ever have angel babies. But I know there is a plan for us and when it's time I will get me baby. Try to stay positive! I read about so many miracles happening after mc so don't give up hope!
Judy ·
it is so hard to see everyone I know being pregnant it also makes me crazy seeing how easy it is for people that can't afford them or don't want them. I also am the only one that has had a miscarriage in my family. I know it will happen just I thought it would have already happened by now. I'm 25, how old are you?
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I saw some research that conclued on the result that the odds of having another MC if you wait more than 6 months to get pregnant again are higher.
I MC in June 6th. First pregnancy. I was 9w. Baby stopped at 5w6d.
I just had my second MC Jan 9th. Blighted ovum.
Now I don't wait to TTC again.
Judy ·
that worries me more now my miscarriage was pretty much exactly a year ago. :(
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its hard to stay positive. my fisrt pregnancy ended in a MC. After that i had a healthyb aby boy and two years after a beautiful baby girl. Im expecting again and last Tue I bled a lot... i thought i was done and i freaked out. Went to ER, baby is ok and bleeding stopped. im still a little nervous but i try to control it ans i get plenty of rest.
Dont over stress, enjoy every minute with your baby, that will help both of you!
Hugs!
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Yeah sorry if It worries you more.
I'm freaked out too. I don't know if I can handle 3 loss.
I try not to stress and stay positive and hope for the best.
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I've lost 2 now. My 2nd was an ectopic & my 1st I lost to early to know if it was a mc or an ectopic that fixed itself. One tube is blocked & they're checking the other Tuesday to make sure it's still open. If it isn't ivf will be our only option & I don't know if we can afford it. I'll know soon if I'll ever be a mommy & I'm terrified!!
Judy ·
I want to have a baby so bad me and my husband have been married for 4 years this may and I just really want something to go right I feel like life always beats us down and I really want this to work out so I'm hoping that my second is a good one :) I'm staying positive!
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Hi ya everyone my names Kellz I have a dd aged 10 and after years if her telling me she didn't want to be a only child I decided to come off my birth control .. And try ... I got my BFP just after my second cycle I wasn't expecting to fall pg so quick ... I was in shock but happy ... How ever I started bleeding on the 1/29 I went for a scan and they said baba was to small to see a heart beat ... I was send by my doctor to a second hospital on 1/30 and they told me I was miscarrying ... I was devastated... I'd never had a miscarriage before ... And I'm now scared to even thing about trying again ... My doctor said to allow one full cycle before trying ... But I seen so many threads on here saying start trying straight away ... I'm so confused ... I obviously haven't had sex as I still bleeding ... But when is it even ok to have sex? I'm worried about infections?! Any help you girlies would be appreciated xx
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I know how yu feel ! I feel the same way . I've had one pregnancy that I wanted so bad which ended in mc at 9 weeks and it's been so hard for me .
I pray that yu get yur bfp ,
I've had some symptoms that have started like my last pregnancy. Tiredness breast tenderness crazy dreams, but my Af isn't due till the 10 so I feel like it might be too early or at least maybe I'm really pregnant . Lol .
I really hope this is our month !
Judy ·
mine AF is expected the 9th I've taken two pregnancy tests and got negative both times but I have all the symptoms so I think its too early to tell. :) I hope we both get bfp!!!
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My first mc was feb 2012. My second was 5 months later, in July. My third mc was in November of 2012.
I don't think it matters how long you wait.
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Thanks girlies for your help ... So as soon as I stop bleeding .. I'm fine to have sex without getting infections ??
Judy ·
yes you will be fine :)
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Well I'm far from ready now ... But atleast it's one least thing I have to not worry about ... Thanks again xx?