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Olivia
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Мама сына (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)

UPDATED: nTown pet trouble

UPDATED: nTown pet trouble


My whole life I have lived in the country, (With the exception of one apartment however my pets were then indoors) and I am uncertain of how to address my problem.

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deleted-user

deleted-user

I don't think you have a right to say anything seeing how your cats roam free as well. You never know your cats could be pissing in their sandbox or scratching their stuff up. I'd just causally mention it to then and see if there's a middle ground

knockout

Olivia

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)

@anna

That's exactly what I was thinking that's why I haven't said anything.

I'm Kind of thinking is just something that I have to deal with, comes with the territory; you know

deleted-user

deleted-user

For the food situation maybe put a high table out and put the food up on it since cats can jump and the dogs can't. That's what I do with my outdoor cats.

knockout

Olivia

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)

Thanks for the advice guys :) I'll try putting the food higher.

I know I can't say they never roam, but I'm a sahm and Iv never seen my cats in anyone's yard.

It's just sucks that the dogs bully my cats :(

And I know poop is still poop, but dog poop is way bigger ?

deleted-user

deleted-user

Outdoor, no leash, no fence, just running around pooping in my yard, that bites. I can't stand owners who let there dogs run free unleashed.....

deleted-user

deleted-user

I'm in California, and everyone has 6 foot tall fences, so I haven't dealt with this. Could you put up a fence?

knockout

Olivia

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)

@ wish we are planning too, not because of the dogs, just so we feel safer about the kids playing. But we just bought the house so that is going to be a "further down the line" project

deleted-user

deleted-user

I don't see how it's legal to just let your dog go onto someone else's property. I'd call the pound next time they come.

deleted-user

deleted-user

chicken wire around your yard for the time being until you get a fence. keeps dogs out and your cats wont be bullied goodluck

knockout

Olivia

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)

It has gotten worse. They came into my yard last night and were barking and growling at my 67 year old grandmother. Also they have been chasing my cats up trees and then my cats won't come back down.

My make cat was stuck up a tree for 3 days with no food before I could find someone to come get him down. And yes I had to pay.

The very next morning my female is stuck up in a tree.

They just come into our yard all the time, and if one of them bites my son I'm going to lose it.

deleted-user

deleted-user

If it's gotten worse then it's time to talk to your neighbors. Yeah they could bring up your cars roaming but your cats aren't terrorizing anyone like their dogs are. Chasing poor cats is one thing but now they are being aggressive to you family op.

deleted-user

deleted-user

I don't like carry prints on my car out digging in my garden only to find cat s*** . But cats are way different then dogs. As long as you have your cats up to date on their shots and have then licensed with the city, then you are within your right to let them be out for cats. Most cities require that of all your animals, indoor and out. You can ask the police department what laws they have on vaccination and registration on pets.


Most cities have a leash law with dogs. Contact you police department and ask if there is a leash law. Also ask them what can be done when a dog is showing aggression towards someone. That is very very dangerous.

deleted-user

deleted-user

Protect your family before anything happens to your poor grandma or son! NOT OK.

deleted-user

deleted-user

Ummm why isn't there a fence?

deleted-user

deleted-user

To my understanding the dogs have to be in the owners property otherwise theyr "running at large" even if they have collars they need to stay in their property...they r becoming a nuisance to ur property and a danger to ur cats and grandmother. I say call the cops or warn the neighbors when theyr dogs go on ur porch and chase ur cats.

deleted-user

deleted-user

I would really recommend keeping your cats indoors until you can build a fence, that's scary. Continuing to let them out is asking for trouble, even though it's a situation you shouldn't have to deal with.

knockout

Olivia

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)

@lovemysunshine no one has fences here, we are in a rural small town. It's not like a big city or anything.

knockout

Olivia

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)

@wishing keeping the cats inside is not an option, after we moved to re new house they started behaving badly (peeing and popping on the floor) also they tear up my sons things

deleted-user

deleted-user

Have you considered re homing the cats . I feel bad for any animal living outside , but even more when they have to deal with dogs attacking them

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