I have a five year old that refuses to get up at night and use the bathroom so almost every night he pee on himself.... Help tried stopping beverages after a certain time... Nothing else is working
@mochagoddess94 thank you.....yes I'm ready this baby is really heavy now and it's another boy
@cocochanel27 your more than welcome love, may I add that when it's a regular day like weekends when my son is home all day and we just lamping around the house and he minding his own business in his room playing, I let him ask me for something to drink when he gets thirsty. Only time I give him a drink on my free well is when I don't feel like getting in and out of bed lol and of course during meals time, but most of the time I let him ask me for something to drink, I'll give him his half of cup of juice or water just enough to quench his thrist lol. I usually save the plastic little kid cups that we get from a restaurant when we go out or when we go to McDonald's and it happen to be a cup as a toy they give away with his happy meal and etc. The cup is a perfect size for a kid his age but I still don't fill the cup up to the rim, strictly half way. My son had his little accidents in the past it's rarely but of course it's going to happen, I'm for sure it will go from frequently to rarely in no time all it's takes it's a little progress that's all, have a good day hun and congrats on your pregnancy your almost done!! What are you having this time around? I feel like 5years is a nice gap, I'm glad I waited instead of having them close to age, it's ALOT easier, with so much help from your big boy, my son is a huge help lol 😊💙
@cocochanel27 usually I just take my son to the bathroom right before he lays to go bed for the night, and throughout the day when he comes home from school with his meals I give him a half of cup either juice or water with his meals with his little kid cup lol. I make sure I limit his liquid intake, not too little and not too much of what I give him to drink. I never fill his cup up to the rim depending on how big or small the cup is. Back when he was 2 years old in the process of potty training usually when I had to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night I'll wake him up too while I'm up, it's been a long time since I had to do that though lol. I hope my little advice helps love, it'll get better for your baby for sure!!
@cocochanel27, aw ❤️ I didn’t even tell my son I noticed. Just threw the underwear in the hamper lol I let him “get away with it” that doesn’t usually happen to him anymore, I think he drank too much watermelon juice that night. My dilemma is with the little one even tho he seems to be getting the hang of it.
@yayacarrington no I haven't and probably should just to make sure it's not a health thing
@leslyev92 my son just did that lastnight and said he didn't want me to get upset
Have you taken him to the doctor to make sure it's not a medical issue? Some children are heavy sleepers and simply don't wake up to the sensation of needing to go. Boys especially tend to night train later.
@cocochanel27, you could tell him that you're too tired to clean his sheets and pajamas then. Have him help you wash them every time he does it. When I have problems with my stubborn toilet trainers at my childcare, I will make them wash the pee or poop out of their underwear with me. Usually it only takes a couple times and they get the message. Just a thought! I'm here to help 😃
Have you asked him why he doesn't want to get up and would prefer to pee in his bed? I know a lot of times there is no reason to children's behavior, but sometimes kids will explain their behavior to us if we ask! 😃
My 2nd child is an awesome zombie goer. Lol, late at night sit him on the toilet and then early morning wake him up to go. He’s 5, he should be close to the stage where he starts to feel embarrassed by peeing on himself/ the bed. My 6 year old the other day had one of those nights, I woke up and he was not in his bed, I just waited for him to pop up and he came back in new underwear and pants lol I was like “why did you change?!” He said he felt like it and had hid his underwear, when I found it, it was smelly lol I thought it was cute that he was trying to hide it.
@cocochanel27 awwwwh it's almost over girl I know that feeling!! another boy is a blessing!! I wanted another boy and they was its a girl I was like awww but I wouldn't have it any other way she such a blessing, I have one of each now im done like mama Dee said on love and hip hop "Ain't no more chocolate coming out this factory 😂"